Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...

You feel as if you're truly male before reading yaoi... but now you're really jealous of men's bodies and gay guys' love for each other?
Huh?
I think you just want a hot boyfriend. j/k

I don't want to be a crossdressing guy, but I want to date one XD (Any straight crossdressers here?)

(I just realized that it sounds weird coming from me... since I have fake Robin cucumber avatar)

My position is HIGHLY strange xD Yes yaoi makes me more jealous of the guys Im reading about. Wow I feel like a weirdo. But I remember there was someone else in the same boat as me here. xD

so you want to be like them?? and you want a boyfriend?? and just so we're clear youre straight right?
ok.. i dont know what im saying.. ive only read a couple of yaoi and im not a huge fan and im female.. soo.. you are saying that you want a relationship like theirs or you just want to have their looks.. its kindda confusing.. XD but anyway whatevery it is that you are pursuing.. GOOD LUCK!!!

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You don't seem to be that much of a man
if you don't think that
yaoi is pure bullshit,
the bodies aren't realistic at all
and the guys in it ham it up big time.

The guys in the mostly bad/ugly yaoi art?
No, thanks.
I am a pretty woman and happy to be myself.
Never wanted to become a guy, ever.

U r such a wierdo.
I got some goosebumps after reading "ur feeling"
I like Yaoi as well, and i have to admit that after being possessed by "yaoi spirit" I have some "gay-fantasy". For example, if I see two guys being so closed to each other, I'll make up some "yaoi doujinshi" in my head It's only for fun but I know people will not like to hear st like that.

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But why are you asking about crossdressing and transexuality?

If you're into crossdressing, all the best ~
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Usually, people realize the way they feel about their gender at a young age - it isn't something triggered by reading gay smut targeted at women.

Hmmm... based on what you said... I admit, at times when I read yaoi, once or twice it crossed my mind, that I want to be a... guy? Hahaha. Some other reasons I want to be a guy are:

1. The unifrom in our school is uncomfortable. So many things to put on! Arggh!
2. I want to know how it feels like to be a guy. Hahaha. All the fun.
3. I want to experience to court a girl. Don't get me wrong. Because I'm a shy girl... I don't get along well with the opposite sex much. So if I would be a guy, even though I am shy, I can court a girl. Also, I am Not the type to be attracted to somebody because of super duper good looks (That's why Boys over Flowers did not catch my attention to watch. No offense to BOF lovers though. ), what matters for me is that I fell in love to that person and I will try if we could work out.

But the "but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi", I did not experience. Heh heh. But you know, reality and those stories are different. Sadly to say.


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i saw a women crossdressing as a man few days ago... she didn't look like a man at all though (only what she wear)... back then i think she is hotter then her friend whom is also a woman... maybe because she is just that hot from the start, or maybe a woman in a man clothes left a certain 'things' inside my imagination ^__^

in short: if u wanna wear men clothes so much, go on... but, please, make sure you don't end up looking fully like a man (that just creepy)..and i don't agree with this part:

i don´t want to crossdress as man, but i want cute man to crossdress. Sometimes when i read yaoi i get jealous of the guys and wish i would be one, but i always remeber that there are more "normal" than gay guys.´But sadly there is the rule that all goodlooking man are handsome or taken XD
I once wanted to be a guy who crossdresses as a woman. Kind of a paradox, isn´t it?

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Hmm, I think I understand what you mean.
I mean, I can't say that I share your feelings, since I'm fine with being female,
but idolization/jealousy of men you'd like to resemble is nothing unusual.
I'm sure most of us have had thoughts like that towards people of the sex we feel we belong to (wanting to be like those people).

I'm no expert on the subject, but I don't think crossdressing is the same as
transsexualism or transgenderism.
But regardless, there is nothing wrong with being the way you are.

On a side note, I've never been jealous of the way that men look, nor have I wanted to resemble them. I have, however, kind of toyed with the thought of what it'd be like to have the "equipment". Ya know, futanari style. It's kind of a fetish of mine.
But I guess strap-ons will have to do~


As for all the comments on how those feelings being evoked by yaoi...
I wish I could just ask you nicely to shut up. =)
We all read manga and a lot of us read manga with sexual content.
Everything is drawn and isn't espcially realistic.
It's all about the fantasy.

@darcyaglow
Do avoid such remarks as "you're a weirdo".
I hope you're capable of expressing yourself without being rude.

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If I had a fantasy self, it'd be a tentacle monster.

I like being female- sometimes, I want to try out crossdressing to see how good I'd look as a guy, though xD

But I actually understand what you're saying, OP.

there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
There are quite some people who feel like this (i don´t). Some are transvestites (people who were born in the wrong body in my opinion) but there are of course normal woman who think that men look better than women and want to be like them. it´s the same like when you see a topmodel on tv and think "if i had her looks..."

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Definition of wierdo is:
1. A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".

So are you suggesting that there are no people who do "strange" things? Strange being "out of the ordinary". I would call her actions out of the "ordinary" backed up agaisnt the majourity of people.

I like your anti descrimination act but you can't say wierdo's don't exist. Thats garbage and it should be desposed of. Its better to think up a more refined condascending line.

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