Depends how angry I am
I do a few of those. I know for a fact that I always act differently when I'm angry, and people know that something is bothering me.
I'm also extra sarcastic. Extra because I'm quite sarcastic as it is xD
I don't like arguments and conflict though, especially with friends. I usually keep my distance and say less than I normally would to them.
I tend not to tell people why I'm angry. They only know that somethings bothering me, but nobody knows what that "something" is except me. I'm kinda reserved like that.
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How do you deal with anger (at someone)?
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I become angry at the person without telling them why.
I straight up say I'm not pleased and tell them why in a rough manner.
I straight up say I'm not pleased and tell them why in a "polite" manner.
I start acting differently than I am, hoping they notice that something is bothering me.
I start making double-sided/sarcastic remarks that I use to express my anger.
I act like there's nothing wrong and go along with my business (even though I'm angry inside).
I blatantly ignore them.
I stop hanging out with them for a while.
All of them (depends on the situation)
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if a stranger pisses me off just acting retarded then i basically just insult them till they remember to never mess with me for no reason, it works, if its a family member or friend that does it i just stop talking to them, the ignore method
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I also tend to act a bit differently, similar to ktmeunier and tactics... just typically get quiet and don't like arguing.
I'd describe myself as the passive-aggressive type. Have never blown up at anyone, so I suppose that is not a great thing (suppressed?). Although I've never blown up, I don't really get angry either... just annoyed. I am trying to be less passive-aggressive, I'm sure it makes being with me a headache sometimes lol.
I'd describe myself as the passive-aggressive type. Have never blown up at anyone, so I suppose that is not a great thing (suppressed?). Although I've never blown up, I don't really get angry either... just annoyed. I am trying to be less passive-aggressive, I'm sure it makes being with me a headache sometimes lol.
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I don't anger easily, mostly because I just don't give a shit about what anyone else thinks or does until it actually causes problems for me. But if I do get pissed at someone then I just pick a fight. But like I said I don't anger easily.
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I hate drama. So even if I am angry I will bottle it up. You see alot of the people around me love drama and get bored easily so they always try to cause a shitstorm. If I respond that will only make them happy and I cant have that. If I'm not happy then nobody gets to be happy either. If I argue back and show anger it shows I care.
I rather make them feel as if I dont care enough to argue back with them and fix things. I dont care enough to patch things up. For me yelling and letting my anger show is losing. I hate to lose. So I am not going to let it out. I dont care how annoying they get or how much they get in my face. I am gonna remain like this . They arent gonna squeeze any emotions out of me. Thats what they want. So they wont get it.
I like to let them sit in their unresolved tension and rage while I pop on my earphones and ignore them entirely. Its fun to be annoying while pretending to be innocent and wearing a poker face. I probably sound messed up..
Its even more fun if someone is mad at you and they start yelling and you just smile and giggle innocently in their face. One of these days someone is gonna strike me but they still wont get the response I know they secretly crave.
I rather make them feel as if I dont care enough to argue back with them and fix things. I dont care enough to patch things up. For me yelling and letting my anger show is losing. I hate to lose. So I am not going to let it out. I dont care how annoying they get or how much they get in my face. I am gonna remain like this . They arent gonna squeeze any emotions out of me. Thats what they want. So they wont get it.
I like to let them sit in their unresolved tension and rage while I pop on my earphones and ignore them entirely. Its fun to be annoying while pretending to be innocent and wearing a poker face. I probably sound messed up..
Its even more fun if someone is mad at you and they start yelling and you just smile and giggle innocently in their face. One of these days someone is gonna strike me but they still wont get the response I know they secretly crave.
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I wonder why there are so many angry people out there
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Looking at the previous comments I feel kind of barbaric.. When I'm mad about something I'd usually express it, according to the relation I have with that person. If I'm mad at someone I'd usually just tell them straight in the face why. In a polite manner when necessary. And if I can't express anger directly I'd make remarks. But if someone REALLY made me angry I'd punch him. But that so far happened once, when a guy threw a mug of boiling water at me. On purpose.
I dislike people bottling everything up inside, because you can easily sense, that something is not right but you can't usually tell what it is.. and they are likely to explode out of the blue, when they reach their limit... Leaving you in a state of "WTF just happened?!"
Dealing with guys is easier - if you are mad at them you'd get into a small fight, after 2 minutes the case is closed and you are best friends again. The girls.. studying at a Technical University has it's pluses.
I dislike people bottling everything up inside, because you can easily sense, that something is not right but you can't usually tell what it is.. and they are likely to explode out of the blue, when they reach their limit... Leaving you in a state of "WTF just happened?!"
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If it's my guy friends I'll tell them straight up (my preferred method)
If it's my girl friends I end up hiding my anger till I explode. Or I tell them at a later date.
Girls tend to get super offended when you tell them you're mad at them and then they won't forgive you for a long time even when it isn't worth it.
If it's my girl friends I end up hiding my anger till I explode. Or I tell them at a later date.
Girls tend to get super offended when you tell them you're mad at them and then they won't forgive you for a long time even when it isn't worth it.
Dealing with guys is easier - if you are mad at them you'd get into a small fight, after 2 minutes the case is closed and you are best friends again. The girls.. studying at a Technical University has it's pluses.
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I get sarcastic and do things that I don't really do. In fact, I'd go to extremes sometimes. I'd do things that even I personally hate. Examples : Not eating, ignoring friends, not replying messages, not saying anything when people expect answers and not going to school.
Childish I know. But I won't calm down unless you give me some space and some sincere apology.
Childish I know. But I won't calm down unless you give me some space and some sincere apology.
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Bump..
I chose ‘I start making double-sided/sarcastic remarks that I use to express my anger.’,
that‘s just me, I don‘t hold anything in even if we‘re infront of a teacher/prof..
that‘s why my friends very rarely tries to make me mad..
But, exceptions are,
Parents-Ignore
Lover-Polite way... Yeah..
Females-Polite way too...
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I chose ‘I start making double-sided/sarcastic remarks that I use to express my anger.’,
that‘s just me, I don‘t hold anything in even if we‘re infront of a teacher/prof..
that‘s why my friends very rarely tries to make me mad..
But, exceptions are,
Parents-Ignore
Lover-Polite way... Yeah..
Females-Polite way too...
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Ooh, I'm VERY pissed off at someone right now. Good thing he isn't here and never will be. I so want to give him a good kick in the head. I'm not usually a violent person, but there you have it.
Anyway, I would usually just ignore the person while I'm still very angry. When I've calmed down, I'll talk to him about it.
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Anyway, I would usually just ignore the person while I'm still very angry. When I've calmed down, I'll talk to him about it.
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I act like there's nothing wrong most of the time, but when I'm beyond pissed, I would say straight up to them (in a calm manner).
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I don't really get angry very easily. The fact that my eyes start watering probably has something to do with that
Oh but if it's my brother or a very close friend I just give them a good kick
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Where's the "I kick their ass" option?
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Where's the "I kick their ass" option?
Oops. Sorry I didn't realize this was a poll. But none of the options really apply to me. Although I'd probably go with 'pretend nothing's wrong' if I had to pick one.
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That was directed at Luv, but whatever.
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