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Post #213091 - Reply to (#213063) by inuveggirl
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11:33 am, Oct 9 2008
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So you don't know for sure that she broke up with him because she is starting to like you? Could he of been a jerk and she was tired of him?

Anyway, if she makes a move for you to go out with her just be honest. Tell her that you like as a friend. She might get upset, but she'll get over it....unless she is the psycho-crazy stalker type. eek
Good Luck!


no, thats part of the problem, her old boyfriend is an awesome guy, seriously, he's impossible to piss of and really nice in general, i hang out with him some times.

the thing is, if he thinks she left him because of me, and i reject her, he will probably see it as if i just broke the two of them up...

Post #213095 - Reply to (#213091) by concrete
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Quote from inuveggirl
So you don't know for sure that she broke up with him because she is starting to like you? Could he of been a jerk and she was tired of him?

Anyway, if she makes a move for you to go out with her just be honest. Tell her that you like as a friend. She might get upset, but she'll get over it....unless she is the psycho-crazy stalker type. eek
Good Luck!


no, thats part of the problem, her old boyfriend is an awesome guy, seriously, he's impossible to piss of and really nice in general, i hang out with him some times.

the thing is, if he thinks she left him because of me, and i reject her, he will probably see it as if i just broke the two of them up...

Most people who are impossible to piss off are absurdly rational. If he's jumping to conclusions like that, most likely he really is a jerk and you didn't know about it.

And don't make an ass of yourself by just randomly telling her that you don't want to date her. If she's constantly hanging off of you, tell her you're not dating, so that sort of thing makes you a little uncomfortable, or if she keeps dragging you along places, you could just tell her that you need some time to yourself.

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Post #213097 - Reply to (#213095) by x0mbiec0rp
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Quote from inuveggirl
So you don't know for sure that she broke up with him because she is starting to like you? Could he of been a jerk and she was tired of him?

Anyway, if she makes a move for you to go out with her just be honest. Tell her that you like as a friend. She might get upset, but she'll get over it....unless she is the psycho-crazy stalker type. eek
Good Luck!


no, thats part of the problem, her old boyfriend is an awesome guy, seriously, he's impossible to piss of and really nice in general, i hang out with him some times.

the thing is, if he thinks she left him because of me, and i reject her, he will probably see it as if i just broke the two of them up...

Most people who are impossible to piss off are absurdly rational. If he's jumping to conclusions like that, most likely he really is a jerk and you didn't know about it.

And don't make an ass of yourself by just randomly telling her that you don't want to date her. If she's constantly hanging off of you, tell her you're not dating, so that sort of thing makes you a little uncomfortable, or if she keeps dragging you along places, you could just tell her that you need some time to yourself.


Please x0mbie, dont make him act like a woman would. Let him be direct and honest, and if she is pissed or whatever, her fault. Honesty wins all in this cases.

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Post #213099 - Reply to (#213097) by grandexeno
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Quote from inuveggirl
So you don't know for sure that she broke up with him because she is starting to like you? Could he of been a jerk and she was tired of him?

Anyway, if she makes a move for you to go out with her just be honest. Tell her that you like as a friend. She might get upset, but she'll get over it....unless she is the psycho-crazy stalker type. eek
Good Luck!


no, thats part of the problem, her old boyfriend is an awesome guy, seriously, he's impossible to piss of and really nice in general, i hang out with him some times.

the thing is, if he thinks she left him because of me, and i reject her, he will probably see it as if i just broke the two of them up...

Most people who are impossible to piss off are absurdly rational. If he's jumping to conclusions like that, most likely he really is a jerk and you didn't know about it.

And don't make an ass of yourself by just randomly telling her that you don't want to date her. If she's constantly hanging off of you, tell her you're not dating, so that sort of thing makes you a little uncomfortable, or if she keeps dragging you along places, you could just tell her that you need some time to yourself.


Please x0mbie, dont make him act like a woman would. Let him be direct and honest, and if she is pissed or whatever, her fault. Honesty wins all in this cases.

Unless it turns out she just thinks of him as a really good friend. Nothing more awkward then telling a girl that you're not really interested in her that way, and she has no clue what you're talking about.

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