That preserving sounds like bull shit.
Saving the virginity for what?
I believe he still took someone's virginity. <.<

I've been following topic for a while... lol... its very interesting... i wouldnt mind dating an otaku! and yes as long as he doesnt smell and is presentable. im an otaku and im very much female. i love shopping for clothes and mangas on the weekend. i play video games after work and write fanfiction on my free time. and i still have time to cook and hang out with friends and party. lol... talk about time management! it would be nice to have a bf who would go to an anime con with me and cosplay.

but the weird thing is that the only anime-otaku i know is my best friend's brother and he's like a brother to me. there is this rpg-otaku i know but he's kinda possessive and narrow minded. maybe i should join the anime club when i go back to college in fall?


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A fall in a ditch makes you wiser...
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Hmm Girls are like that as well, a few days ago a girl ask me if i was a virgin and when i told her no she got up and walked away and never spoke to me again.... I was think "Virginity steal"

i think guys who has f-buddies are a major turn off. i know someone like that and he constantly cheats on his gf.

cheating=messy break-up=psycho ex-gf

and it goes both ways btw

and yes "preserving" the virginity part of his gf is a bit stupid...


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A fall in a ditch makes you wiser...
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ROFL! awesome call. i mean seriously. Haruhi = lol

=( Well now,... I understand why a friend of mine wants to do it with me, even though I'm not his girlfriend. Stupid!!!

Otaku + Anime Club = Superior.

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yes! That is stupid... just thinking about doing it with someone just for the heck of doing it is stupid. Or maybe I'm just old fashioned.

Hm, I think there's an anime club in my university somewhere... maybe I should join to meet fellow otakus?

I went to ask him. And he confirmed it. He was going for my virginity. URG. FREAK.

To be on topic! If the otaku male doesn't do that (above), he is great.

wow... he actually confirmed it... what an honest jerk...

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A fall in a ditch makes you wiser...
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I know it is wrong, but i find that hilarious.
i personally will never do that, but it just amazes me.
I myself prefer virgins simply because i don't like sluts.
This doesn't mean that i am after their virginity, but i prefer cute and innocent over sexy and slutty.

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"Practice makes perfect, but nobody's perfect, so why practice?

"but he's a friend!" is something I will never say again.


haha. I'm glad it entertained you.. And not all virgins are "cute and innocent" right..?

I know what you mean. I would never have sex with a girl who was raped either.

J/k of course. But yeah, the "hot girls" in my school make me go limper than a...Ok, I don't really have a good metaphor for that. But the point remains that they are a DO NOT WANT.

But if the girl isn't a virgin because she had sex with another girl first...well, that's another story.

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I think for most female otaku, you shouldn't expect to like all of the same anime/manga as she does. You like action/shounen and she likes romance/shoujo. And, more likely then not, she'll probably like at least one series that has male x male aspect to it. The question is, are you mature enough to respect her interests and not act like a jerk about it? Yelling at her that that kind of thing is disgusting is probably not going to make her happy.