I don't know in my warped up mind I think if I had a hot (or even decent looking) male stalker that wouldn't be so bad. I mean if I was ever hurt (like hit by a car or fell down the stairs) my stalker could help me out or get help. If I was dancing the tango with someone, and I knew my stalker was watching .... that's interesting to me.
I guess it all boils down to how serious the stalker gets. If he were to get jealous, then try to kidnap me and do other things .... wait I like the whole Stockholm syndrome thing ....
Ummm I'm messed up , but if it did get out of hand I would go to the cops/get a restraining order.
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wow it's a really old thread. I picked 1b because I don't want to make a big deal of something if I am not certain. I did have a guy friend who was turning into a stalker lol and I did my best to avoid him. Basically, I avoided going to the library, talking to him in class, and kept a distance from him. I even changed classes and informed one of professors just in case things got worse. He is a good guy and I still see him while changing class but that is all. I think he got the message because he has stopped stalking me lol.
i think i agree with silencecomes. i'd trust my intuition.
sometimes it's just an adorably shy person. i actually was stalked once. it's best to use your gut. then maybe a bat. or a taser. or a gun if you're into it. or a reeeeeeally sexy knife. .... knife-ey. me likey.
this thread has been both educational and entertaining.
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