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Hmmm, did anyone realize that most posts in this topic are by girls?
Does this mean guys usually don't have crushes or that they simply don't post in such topics? ô.o
Does this mean guys usually don't have crushes or that they simply don't post in such topics? ô.o
Haha, interesting remark. Out of the 23 comments
(sans mine), only 3 are male, and the rest are all girls.
I don't know what to make of that. O_O
Well I don't really know what determines a crush but for me they only really last for a 1 or 2 days maximum. If I ever find someone very interesting or just generally someone I want to know better. I will most likely forget it when I get home and reality overwhelms me with all the work deadlines and exam times and payments I have to make. So the chances of a friend of mine having a crush on the same person I have is very low, and the chances of me caring are alot lower. ~.~ Being realistic is a bitch I wish I was capable of trying to aim higher than I allow myself to for once, I guess its what you do when you do alot of science and maths. You become a very logical person.
Forgive me for saying this, but what you're saying is bullshit =P
I'm a male(as you can see from my previous post and my username) Computer Science student so by your reasoning I should be a very logical person, which I am indeed. However that doesnt change the fact that when I care about someone I care, and I can say the same about a ton of my classmates(I'm not a native english speaker so the word for student from the same course at uni eludes me), the ones that don't seem to care about girls are that way simply because they have low self-esteem and don't believe that they can get a girl to like them(which is also bullshit) so they simply give up.
My point is, you may feel that way because you don't have the time, but if you find a girl that you fancy a lot and you don't delude yourself into thinking you do not you'll either find the time or berate yourself for not having the time.
And I speak from personal experience in pretty much all of the things I said in this post =P
I agree with you. I've also had similar experiences, myself (though I'm girl but anyway) and my friends (males and females).
Also, my friend has dated my crush. A friend has stole my boyfriend. And so on. You'd think we forget when time passes by, but that's not always the case.
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