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Post #335795 - Reply to (#335791) by Pedro Boh
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10:25 am, Nov 18 2009
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Hmmm, did anyone realize that most posts in this topic are by girls?

Does this mean guys usually don't have crushes or that they simply don't post in such topics? ô.o

Haha, interesting remark. Out of the 23 comments
(sans mine), only 3 are male, and the rest are all girls.

I don't know what to make of that. O_O


Well I don't really know what determines a crush but for me they only really last for a 1 or 2 days maximum. If I ever find someone very interesting or just generally someone I want to know better. I will most likely forget it when I get home and reality overwhelms me with all the work deadlines and exam times and payments I have to make. So the chances of a friend of mine having a crush on the same person I have is very low, and the chances of me caring are alot lower. ~.~ Being realistic is a bitch I wish I was capable of trying to aim higher than I allow myself to for once, I guess its what you do when you do alot of science and maths. You become a very logical person.



Forgive me for saying this, but what you're saying is bullshit =P

I'm a male(as you can see from my previous post and my username) Computer Science student so by your reasoning I should be a very logical person, which I am indeed. However that doesnt change the fact that when I care about someone I care, and I can say the same about a ton of my classmates(I'm not a native english speaker so the word for student from the same course at uni eludes me), the ones that don't seem to care about girls are that way simply because they have low self-esteem and don't believe that they can get a girl to like them(which is also bullshit) so they simply give up.

My point is, you may feel that way because you don't have the time, but if you find a girl that you fancy a lot and you don't delude yourself into thinking you do not you'll either find the time or berate yourself for not having the time.

And I speak from personal experience in pretty much all of the things I said in this post =P


I agree with you. I've also had similar experiences, myself (though I'm girl but anyway) and my friends (males and females).

Also, my friend has dated my crush. A friend has stole my boyfriend. And so on. You'd think we forget when time passes by, but that's not always the case. biggrin

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Post #335809 - Reply to (#335777) by tactics
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Quote from tactics
Quote from Dr. Love
Quote from Pedro Boh
Hmmm, did anyone realize that most posts in this topic are by girls?

Does this mean guys usually don't have crushes or that they simply don't post in such topics? ô.o

Haha, interesting remark. Out of the 23 comments
(sans mine), only 3 are male, and the rest are all girls.

I don't know what to make of that. O_O


Girls tend to be more interested in romance generally I guess.

I'd say that guys would go and take the girl they
have a crush on before any other d00d gets in the
way.

Although, in a community like this,
while I am doing the former, the rest of
the guys are prolly weeping how ronery
they are and doing chemistry/physics/math
homework. :,D

Post #335855 - Reply to (#335624) by Dubby
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Yes.

I beat the living shit out of her. :3

O_O I am interested in how this came to be.

It wasn't really a date per say, but what he did he really pissed me off. Heck even if I didn't like her still would've gotten under my skin, it was just furthered by the fact I had a crush on her.

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when girls get mad at another girl, sometimes it gets bersek uggly U_U

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Post #335891 - Reply to (#335887) by chulian1819
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when girls get mad at another girl, sometimes it gets bersek uggly U_U

"Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned." When guys get mad, they beat each other up. When women get mad, we make people's lives a living hell(and then beat them up).

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Post #336437 - Reply to (#335809) by Mamsmilk
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I'd say that guys would go and take the girl they
have a crush on before any other d00d gets in the
way.

Although, in a community like this,
while I am doing the former, the rest of
the guys are prolly weeping how ronery
they are and doing chemistry/physics/math
homework. :,D


..you can take the girl you want cause you have a lot of self confidence, and the looks, not everyone has that O_O~
just saying.

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fg

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nope, not once
the closest to it was finding them on school campus and talking to them
but that was back in high school

now-a-days
every girl that i like i talk to so, i really never get a chance to have a crush

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Wat happens happens.
If you had actually gotten somewhere with the girl/guy then you could be upset, but otherwise, one can be mad at his/her own inaction.

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Post #336452 - Reply to (#336437) by Azuka
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Quote from Azuka
Quote from Mamsmilk
I'd say that guys would go and take the girl they
have a crush on before any other d00d gets in the
way.

Although, in a community like this,
while I am doing the former, the rest of
the guys are prolly weeping how ronery
they are and doing chemistry/physics/math
homework. :,D


..you can take the girl you want cause you have a lot of self confidence, and the looks, not everyone has that O_O~
just saying.


Self confidence is worth more than the looks, and it doesn't hurt to be a smooth talker

It sucks that I don't have the confidence nor the smooth talkiness(and this is the most suckiest thing ever) >.<
at least I'm not hideous =P
well,at least I don't think I am >.>
That is a minimum of self-confidence I guess, but not enough by far =P

btw, I've seen butt ugly guys get hot girls simply because they had the guts to go for it
aaaaaaaaaaand usually guys don't get subtle hints that the girls try to pass, so when they go for it is by the means of sheer courage, not because they realize that the girl was flirting =P

PS: My pic is readily available at the "post your pic here...if you're brave enough"(or something like it) topic on the last page, so if you wanna reinforce my self-confidence or bash at it be my guest laugh

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Well I'm a sucker for cute and nice boys, so I get a crush TO easy... (latest, Happend just a day ago.)
So if someone of my friends would start dating one of them I would at first be mad but after a week I will be okay with it.
crushes sure feels weird, the first day you like them, the second day your feelings are over D:
Yes, My feeling are an hurricane, yet it shouldn't be like that cause I'm already 18!

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Yep. And they started going out until now. sad

Of course, I'm a little bit bitter. Although me and another close friend of hers doesn't like that guy for her. Because it happens so fast. They got close in the first place because I like that guy and some of our friends know him so they make chances for me to see him. sad I never knew that this could also start something between them. They just got together through Facebook for crying out loud. The power of technology.

But take note I'm still friends with her but its not like before.

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hm yeah one time.even though I must say it wasn't a crush,but I really was in love with my best female friend.when my best male friend then told me that they were going out I was really about to kill him because he knew my feelings well.though I already was quite sure what was going on,him saying so gave the last push to freaking out.
it was a couple of years ago and even today I'm not sure how I made it,I'm extremele happy about it, but I could go outside the bar and cool my head before exploding.
I didn't notice at that time but he told me later that my eyes turned black and I started shaking.scared the hell of a crap out of him biggrin
in the end I didn't talk to him some time....can't remember how long.
I was really sure that the hole thing was over when I managed to be truly happy for them when they got engaged at the party for my 19th birthday even if they have yet to marry

sadly I'm only posting this bloody story because I'm bored like hell
'cause nobody had time to go out for a heavy drink biggrin

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Going a little far back here, but in grade 8 I had a crush on a girl and my friend had a crush on another girl. We didn't have the guts to ask them out to the graduation dance, but instead I asked a different girl out and my friend asked a different girl out.

Turns out, both of us dated each other's crushes (but we only talked about it like two years after the fact)

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She was about to and i snapped on her, but it was my fault too..i told her i gave up on him but then she comes and tells me she has his facebook account and she told she likes him andwas about to ask him out...that's when i snapped. before that day i had given up on him as soon as i heard his name from her, i'm like "WHATconfused? mad "

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