I was always ask all my guy friends, how do you know a guy is interested in you? and hitting on you? I justed wanted to see how the guys would act.

When I asked my girl friends they said that, "you just know.." which left me extremely confused. =S Even if a guy is talking to you, isn't he just being nice?

Please enlighten me! xD

Hm, can't really answer your question...there's no one answer since guys go at it using different methods and whatnot. O_O

And ya, just because a guy talks to you it doesn't mean they are hitting on you. Some guys really do just want to talk...

Anyway, only posting here because I think this belongs in the Ask the Opposite Gender thread.

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Monkeys, always at your service.

You can't know.
Some say it straight,
some are just wimps.

So you actually can say =P

as you said, some just say it straight and others don't have the guts to do it

Most of the time guys are not really subtle =P

If you're looking into clues to as if the guy is interested, the ones that don't have the guts usually feel awkward around a girl they're interested at, so they most probably will look unconfortable, as if they don't know what to do.


and if you don't know a guy and he goes and talk to you he probably isn't just being nice.

ther are plenty of signs

but they all can be read differently

One is how close she tends to be with you, i mean physically.
does she walk very close next to you, does she like to sit next to you. the closer she appears to be next to you, means the more she is definitely comfortable around you.

(just one tip, haha you'll have to buy my book if you want more info )


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why because i am the president of the student council of course

I cant relate to this though my friends say im to dense and oblivious even when they say it clear i dont know like this one dude asked me out but i didnt even know he did.
it was weird i dont get liking if it has to deal with me but if its my friends im like a physic at it

Whenever I liked someone, I would avoid/ignore them (like the plague.) Though I'm quite friendly in general -- when I don't "like" them. There goes your logic.

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Yeah that is the situation for me too.. I am so oblivious but I can tell clearly if a person is hitting on a person directly.

Everyone does it differently...some chase/try to impress/stay close, some shy away and/or wait for the right moment and some drop subtle hints...one good way to know who that guy likes is through friends but then again people tend to hook up some couples in their minds just because they think they are suited to each other...

..and one thing u have to get out of mind is that you are un-date-able - that will open up avenues...

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I wouldn't consider it being wimpy, rejection from someone you love can be as painful as a gun shot

You can't really tell, it varies.
Some people are really good at hiding their feelings.

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No one gives a shit what trite garbage you write here.

And that is what the wimpy part is.
Not being able to do that which one
wants to but won't because of fear.

Ok then I'll give it a try
ah.........um
um..Mamsmilk
you know....I
I really like you, your sarcasm, cynicism, narcissism and over all sardonic behaviour is so attractive. I can no longer resist

Anyway could you just tell someone you like/love them when you aren't sure of their feelings. Can you not be hurt and handle rejection from someone you really care about


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No one gives a shit what trite garbage you write here.

It might hurt, but that's life.
It's better to be straightforward
and give it a shot. A low self-confidence
only makes the pain worse,
but it's better to feel the pain for a short
while instead of living in fear for a long time.

Ah, all this confession talk has got me fired up. Maybe I should confess too >_<

So back to topic.
I tend to tease them a lot xD
Its a classic method for a guy to be close to a girl - the guy can be close to her and the girl can laugh along or react cutely to the teasing.
In a way, they don't have to confess since they're already so close (yet not close enough)...a coward's method, I must admit, but it happens.

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Everyday I'm tumblin'

Everyone is different.
The subtle signs are impossible to see unless you've known the person for a while.

The big signs, well you'd have to be a moron to miss.

Anyways Mams is right. You can't wait around for someone else to decide they like you. You make the move.
Aggression is always appreciated by the opposite sex. Even if they have NO interest in you what so ever, they might see you in a different light if you have the confidence to approach them.

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