If you want truly disturbing (and not for the faint of heart or squeamish), there's Cold Rain of Happiness.
________________ If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
From a bumper sticker I like: "If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."