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Why do girl Otakus never try to find guy otakus?
Guy would rather look at anime girls then me
Guy has no money/jobs
Guy is to lazy
Guy is to nerdy
They are not cute as the guys from animes/mangas
I wanna be the nerd and find a cool boyfriend
Why find a boyfriend to busy with anime/manga
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Post #95530 - Reply to (#95517) by CatGrr
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I think one of the reasons is that I don't know a single male that isn't an utter and complete idiot. I mean, every guy I know that's into manga and/or anime only cares about big swords and big boobs. Yeah, try to talk with that bunch of people. And that's 99% of the male populace. G.W. Bush is a perfect example of a standard male here. roll

laugh Okay.. that's pretty harsh.. laugh There are some idiots, but I definitely can't say a majority of men fall into the catagory.

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CatGrr I can only guess you have had the great misfortune of having limited direct contact with decent, civilized, and mature males. Its really not right to drag the President into this. G.W. Bush isn't a "bad person" so much as mentally handicapped but this is another topic altogether.

Personally my problem is I've dated too many airheads who think getting up a putting on makeup is a reason in of itself for existence. To put is simply mean a conversation have ended mid-sentence and mind-thought. dead


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Yeah, try to talk with that bunch of people. And that's 99% of the male populace
is easily impressed with cheap magic tricks, cookies and milk, and a pat on the back. They can be bought easy and dealt with quickly.

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someone say cookies and milk?

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Post #95586 - Reply to (#95529) by Dr. Love
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Anyways, CatGrr, are you male or female..? o.O

Please refrain from using strong language..


Is my nick too subtle of a hint? Really?

This at least proves your case.

Also, try to search for the one thing common with people like Hitler, Mao Zedong, Stalin, Charles Manson, Pol Pot, Napoleon and the like. Yeah. Try to give me one example of a man that isn't like that to a lesser extent.

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Anyways, CatGrr, are you male or female..? o.O

Please refrain from using strong language..


Is my nick too subtle of a hint? Really?

This at least proves your case.

Also, try to search for the one thing common with people like Hitler, Mao Zedong, Stalin, Charles Manson, Pol Pot, Napoleon and the like. Yeah. Try to give me one example of a man that isn't like that to a lesser extent.


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Anyways, CatGrr, are you male or female..? o.O

Please refrain from using strong language..


Is my nick too subtle of a hint? Really?

This at least proves your case.

Also, try to search for the one thing common with people like Hitler, Mao Zedong, Stalin, Charles Manson, Pol Pot, Napoleon and the like. Yeah. Try to give me one example of a man that isn't like that to a lesser extent.


Ghandi I believe would be a good example? John Lennon perhaps? A whole slew of other men. I would like to believe I am not a complete idiot. Whether I can convince others or not may be a bit more of a challenge.

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I think one of the reasons is that I don't know a single male that isn't an utter and complete idiot. I mean, every guy I know that's into manga and/or anime only cares about big swords and big boobs. Yeah, try to talk with that bunch of people. And that's 99% of the male populace. G.W. Bush is a perfect example of a standard male here. roll

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Wow. Someone's been hanging out with the wrong crowd. laugh

Granted there are guys like that; when I worked in property management renting mostly to college frat boys I was starting to think that guys didn't care about much beyond boobs & beer, but it was just that group - there are a LOT of guys who are different. Sometimes a bit TOO "different", but anyway... laugh It's just as unfair a stereotype as saying that "99% of girls are completely superficial, all they care about is looking good & having a good-looking boyfriend".

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The reason I wouldn't go for a guy otakus is simple. I've dated guy otakus and they make the worse boyfriends. It so god damn annoying when you can't get a guy to talk about something else besides anime/manga/games. And it's even worse when they can't talk about anything else because they don't know anything else. It's even more annoying when they can't shut up about an anime/manga/game you don't like or hate. Guy otakus, IMO, are less mature and more irresponsible. They would rather buy an anime/manga/game instead of a box of condoms and get mad when their girlfriend won't give them any. Are guys even aware of how much birth control costs or what a girl has to do to get it? It's a lot cheaper and less embarrassing for your girlfriend if you just get some condoms, especially considering that you can get condoms for free if you go to health services.

Another problem with guy otakus is that you're lucky to find one with a job and if he has one, it's because his parents cut him off and now he has to support his habit. It's also harder to get them to take you on a date. Either they are in a party and can't leave, their friends are coming over to play/watch the new game/anime they got, they don't have money cuz they just spent it on anime/manga/games and the list goes on.

I love anime and manga and some games, but it seems like guy otakus have no way of prying themselves from that world. Girl otakus, on the other hand, seem to realize there is more to the world than anime, manga and games. Your otakus girlfriend might be happy to watch anime with you, swap mangas and join you in a game, but if you can't or aren't willing to join the real world, it'll never workout because no matter how much of an otakus she is, she is going to want to be in the real world at some point and do what non-otakus do.


We (two otaku's) have read your post and have to say a few things about it:

You say that otaku's only talk about anime/manga and games but the opposite is true. We barely speak about it except with another otaku when we have seen a new anime or something. To non- otaku's we never speak about anime/manga and games. Also you say that we can't talk about other things besides otaku- stuff but this isn't true either. Cuz else we wouldn't speak at all.
You can't just say that otaku's are less mature and more irresponsible then "normal guys" cuz this just depends on the guy itself. And also only the extreme otaku's would rather buy an anime/manga/game then a box of condoms. The biggest amount would probably buy the second, the box of condoms.
Another point is that we otaku's have a job, and it's not because our parents cut us off. We have the jobs too finance things "normal guys" would buy, like a drivers license and a 32" LCD tv. We don't just spent our money on manga/anime or games.
Also about the date thing:
When somebody would ask for a date or just going out, we wouldn't hesitate to break up the party. We don't only have otaku friends, most of them are "normal people" so nobody comes by my place to watch anime. Why would we go to somebody else to watch anime, while we can watch it at home. About the money for the date, we always have enough because we don't use all our money on anime/manga/games. Second, we don't like to be broke. Last, if we unexpectedly become broke, we can always rely on our "secret stash" if neccesary. About the list, what list?!
You also say that guy otaku's are stuck too much in the "manga/anime world", but this also depends on the person(how extreme he is). But this can also occur with a girl otaku. And here you say that guy otaku's only do otaku stuff, but we're otaku's and do non- otaku stuff too. And about how much non- otaku stuff you do, depends on how much of a otaku you are.

This was the post, enjoy! biggrin


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It's just as unfair a stereotype as saying that "99% of girls are completely superficial, all they care about is looking good & having a good-looking boyfriend".

Well don't they? If not then its news to me cause all I'm hearing now is she’s become a man hate'in fem-o-nazi.

Yes, most men who seek power and get it turn out to be complete trash but if your lucky you won't date one of them. eek laugh
Great cross section by the way lets pick nothing but the worst examples of human atrocities committed of all time and by nothing but the most horrid aspects in humanity.

But the main problem is I DON'T THINK any of them were otakus.

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Richard Simmons was

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A friend of mine is an otaku, and so is his girlfriend (they are engaged right now). I have a female friend (not girlfriend) who is an otaku as well. And, when I do get a girlfriend, she probably needs to be an otaku as well. Interesting.

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You guys, watch the spam, the arguments, and whatever else you have on your mind. This topic's going down into the dumps...

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Sorry I digressed...a lot.

I believe that either the female okatus fear being ridiculed for their interest in anime and either hide or lie about it. So it doesn't rank very high on the list of things to look for when looking for common ground while dating. In the end viewed more as a hobby that has little bearing on the overall situation and yet that why people get together to begin with; common ground, likes/dislikes, similar hobbies.

A paradox I guess?


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Post #95715 - Reply to (#95709) by Papermaster
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Sorry I digressed...a lot.

I believe that either the female okatus fear being ridiculed for their interest in anime and either hide or lie about it. So it doesn't rank very high on the list of things to look for when looking for common ground while dating.

no, we just dont like the word "otaku" as i said before, my association with otaku is a guy who drules over hentai games all day in his dark room with no shower.
if its someone who interests in animanga, then its just that, and id like to have a bf who will understand why im reading japanese comix and watching cartoons.
ant btw, i really dont hide the fact that i like anime and manga, i bring my kanji notebook to school, and everyone in my class knows about my final english project, with the topic of "anime and manga" none

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...wish I knew more open and honest people like yourself *sigh*

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my association with otaku is a guy who drules over hentai games all day in his dark room with no shower.

I've sadly meet people like that, give me the creeps.

I understand the negative vibe linked with being called a okaku. Makes me feel like back in 7th grade I was called a dork among other names cause I knew most all the answers the teachers asked the class. So I shut up and stopped talking during school, for 3 years. I got really weird but finally made some friends in high school. But that wasn't right at all just cause something’s not the status quo doesn't make it not right.

Too much negative feeling directed at the word okatu from people who are just upset about their own insecurities and the negative stereo type placed upon it within the last few years.


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