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yeah if you aren't wearing a burka, you can get raped, but it IS your fault because thats the societal penalty for walking around without wearing a burka. Why, then if you wanted to not get raped would you go around without a Burka on and blame someone else?
rape is NEVER a womans fault, no mater if she wears clothing or not, it is not a womans fault. ever.
As much as I disagree with how red255 chose his words, there is some kind of logic there.
If woman dresses like she wants to get raped then...you know?
Not that I condone with the cultural practice you mentioned.
I don't even understand why a religion teacher would be showing you that :S
I kind of disagree... quite a bit actually. If a woman wants to wear what she wants, it doesn't mean she's looking for sexual attention. Sometimes I wear skimpy things because I feel that clothes* can be really stifling. No woman dresses to get raped-maybe to have fun, but not to be forced into a situation that arose because somebody could not control their sexual impulse.
*at least modest clothes
okay this is getting off topic, but even if a girl wears her bra and underwear outside it still does not give ANYONE the right to rape her.
people are starting to scare me with the 'rape' is a woman's fault thinking....
STOP using Oprah logic bull shit. and trying to paint people who don't watch Oprah as monsters.
I mean gods sakes its Oprah. She's just a black lady who had a show and a weight problem. and an understandably wierd view on sex due to well, everyone's view on sex is wierd.
But your whole 'never a woman's fault thing' is rather disturbing to me. It speaks of bad upbringing.
When there are two parties involved and you automatically assume the other party is 100% at fault you are admitting a predjudice. One that needs to be removed.
Who is defining rape here.
Girl is with a guy in little or no clothing, they have sex. girl claims it was rape.
You can believe her, but I'm going to have trouble doing that, as I'm not an imbecile. I don't Watch Oprah, and women, well they lie. alot. and then they pretend that their lies are no big deal, because if they do they sometimes get away with it.
So aside from a strip joint, why is a girl showing a guy her naked body if she doesn't want to have sex, and why is she claiming rape afterwards if she isn't simply attempting to abuse the system for personal gain or vengence?
Lets try this. Two people, everyone admits the girl got naked and with the guy of her own free will.
afterwards the guy claimed he thought he had consent and the girl claimed she was raped.
Nobody disputes the fact she was there happily with her clothes off.
Are you really going to side with the girl? Assuming the girls motives were framing the male for vengence, or other power reasons there may even be signs of rough sex, either preformed at the scene or after.
will you at LEAST admit she doesn't have a 100% no doubt case in the matter?