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12:18 pm, Dec 28 2007
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lol leather pants

and to get back on topic:
another bad way of breaking up is to ask ur new partner to do it for u -_-''' thats a big no

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Quote from HatakeKakashi
ask someone out-best way i suppose would be a straight forward way, not much use hiding emotions (i know, i used to be very timid and shy), does no one any good, and even if you get rejected, atleast you gave it a try....

and the worst way to break up with someone has gotta be in some impersonal way, like, email, or myspace, or text message....it just doesent seem right....and it sucks.

but thats just my op.

Agree. I like guys who are straight forward and well if you get rejected atleast you tried. Worst way to break up is definitely through a text or e-mail that's just plain rude.

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worst way:

send him/her a text message saying i have another gf/bf.

for best way:

just ask straight?

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Best way to dump: Provoke them into dumping YOU. Then there are no tears on both ends, as he/she will hate you too much to cry over you. ;D

Best way to ask out: offer to take them to a hotel (and Ichigo 100 way of course. Rofl)

Worst way to dump: directly. ;( SHAME ON ALL OF YOU. You'll look "good" and "brave" and only make the person realize what a great person they just lost. ;.; thus tears. MAKE YOURSELF LOOK BAD.

Worst way to ask out: offer to take them to a hotel (and Ichigo 100% way)

...oh wait. >.>

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best may of asking.. would not need to say" would you wana go out" but a conversation that indicate so.
Worse way to break up... probably having the other girl you like tell her to break up with him ..lawl drama,, jk sad

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Best way to dump: Provoke them into dumping YOU. Then there are no tears on both ends, as he/she will hate you too much to cry over you. ;D


Trust me that is the worst way to go . . ever. I could go into a rant about why but lets just say, I've tried it and it is epic fail.

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Best way to dump: Provoke them into dumping YOU. Then there are no tears on both ends, as he/she will hate you too much to cry over you. ;D


Trust me that is the worst way to go . . ever. I could go into a rant about why but lets just say, I've tried it and it is epic fail.
Just cause you failed at it doesn't mean the method itself is fail. ;P

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Best way to dump someone? Mmm just put a gun on her head and scream to leave you alone.
No seriously the best way to dump someone is to pretend to be someone who likes all the things she hate and try to be as asshole as you can get. The worst would be to just let her see you in bed or maybe a kiss if you prefer with another girl ( I would go with the sex stuff, but maybe its just me)
And the best way to ask someone out... wait till she keep her eyes on you for e few seconds and just go to where she is, even if she is with her friends, and ask her out. It could be embarrassing, but remember something: YOU ALREADY HAVE THE NO. Keeping that in mind everything she says its welcome (maybe not the actual no but I hope you get my point). And even if she says no you will be prepared. I know its hard being told no but the possibility for her to say yes is there, so show guts and maybe you will end up rewarded. And if she is with girl-friends of her own you can always ask one of them out (I did it and the other girl turned out to be a real good girlfriend.
And she was cutter than the other.

Another ways to ask her out it would be using the gun technique reversed. So for you to tell her: GO OUT WITH ME OR I SHOOT YOU or even telling her GO OUT WITH ME OR I KILL MYSELF. Last one not recommended because she might not care less for your life, in that case she might not be worthy, unless she is really hot and in that case I will go with the shoot her strategy.

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Don't double(or triple) post, Gastonf.

Just edit the first post or wait for someone to post again.

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~Well to me the best way is to tell them face to face u like them and just ask them out!! ....even sayin that i;m to gutless to do that!!LoL-_-

~Well and i think the worst way to break up with someone is telling them u like someone else or sayin u got some other girl pregnaut!!-_-



Yep, is best to say it upfront, and act as if you care a lot (even if is not true) this way they at least will concern themselves to not reject you in a bad way and hurt your feelings.

to break up is like a science or an art, you need to know how to do it, or else resentment may be born and no one wants people out there to hate them

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I'm kicking myself for caring enough to write this post, but just a word of advice about tricking people to break up with you. Its harder to convince someone with strong feelings towards you that your a jerk all of a sudden, then say everyone else around you. You either take too long to break it off, or run a high risk of pissing off those around you (unless you don’t have any mutual friends). Perhaps not all the time, but your playing with fire.

Note: Dont play with metaphorical fire, but real fire is ok, because frankly its frikkin awesome

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best way to ask someone out?
-call her to someplace, just the two of u...
-look at her eyes closely...
-and say 'be my girl/boyfriend'....if she/he refuse, use GEASS..


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I think th best way to ask someone out to do it in a special way if u know that person. If that person likes a fuss, and is a girl- flowers and at a special moment when she is most likely to say yes. I have no idea how it would be for a guy.

Worst way to break up is through email, txt or phone. It feels very impersonal.

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I'm just basically reinforcing what everyone is saying.

Best way is to ask face to face. Doing it over the phone, texting, on msn etc. I feel is a cowardly way to ask someone out. Thats just my opinion though. If someone wants to ask me out, I want to face them and vise versa.

Again, breaking up by using technological means is a cowards way out.

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well.. best way to ask someone out is ofc one-on-one, preferably when there is the right atmosphere and mood..
coincidentally.. only once did i actually say.. "let's go out".. every other time the deeds were sufficient enough...))

worst way to break up.. hm.. i think smth like a text message is awful, but what is worse, i think, is ignoring the person.. no answering calls.. just kinda disappearing.. that will torment the other party for quite some time...(( because unlike flat-out rejection this will leave a trace of hope that smth just happened with the person and everything might still go back to how it was.. (

another one might be when you sleep together for the first time.. and in the morning you dump the person saying that's all you wanted or she/he was only a bet or smth... ((

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