I think she is really really strong. To accept the fact isn't easy. I would be easy if she wasn't her friend.
If I was her then I would either fight about him or let go of this friendship and this love, because I couldn't be a good friend to them. I would wish them the best, but I wouldn't be strong enough to face their relationship. I would let go and have new beginning.

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He stepped back and threw his arms out.
"I'm always crazy around you Rose. Here, I'm going to write an impromptu poem for you."
He tipped his head back and shouted to the sky:
"Rose is in red
But never in blue
Sharp as a thorn
Fights like one too.” - Adrian; Shadow Kiss


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