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ShadowSakura
Post #426065 - Reply to (#426059) by Akatsubaki
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yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

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Vanishcore
Post #427400 - Reply to (#426065) by ShadowSakura
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8:02 pm, Nov 26 2010
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nope, don't have a gf, but i'm also not searching for a gf. ( I would say, not found the right one? )

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Mamsmilk
Post #427403 - Reply to (#426065) by ShadowSakura
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8:11 pm, Nov 26 2010
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yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

You're just being delusional.
What kind of person could possibly
stop being friends with someone if s/he
is dating someone why the person in question
would not date.

ShadowSakura
Post #427405 - Reply to (#427403) by Mamsmilk
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8:16 pm, Nov 26 2010
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yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

You're just being delusional.
What kind of person could possibly
stop being friends with someone if s/he
is dating someone why the person in question
would not date.


this is what you call society.
There may be schools were it doesn´t matter.
But there are schools were it does

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Post #427409 - Reply to (#427405) by ShadowSakura
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yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

You're just being delusional.
What kind of person could possibly
stop being friends with someone if s/he
is dating someone why the person in question
would not date.


this is what you call society.
There may be schools were it doesn´t matter.
But there are schools were it does

I'm also part of the society, and I wouldn't care even
if you dated a goldfish. As long as you actually haven't tested,
you cannot say what the outcome is.

mixxi
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9:11 pm, Nov 26 2010
Posts: 302


i only have a lot of stalkers XD

but i have already decided i will keep my heart aand body pure for lelouch^^

no just kidding... im not in a relationship yet but i do have a crush on someone^^

Rabin
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9:38 pm, Nov 26 2010
Posts: 150


Like the majority of people here i'm single as well, but it is nice to be able to be independent and not have to worry about the "responsibilities" of a relationship.

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Klapzi
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9:39 pm, Nov 26 2010
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Firstly, yeah, I have a Girlfriend and in 4 days we will complete 2 years of realtionship

About sakura's "case"
I think both mamsmilk and you are wrong in a way(mamsmilk I wish everyone in the world was like you)

It's not easy as mamsmilk say, but it's not impossible as you say...

I know because I already had an situation like yours, tough I was younger at the time and I think being younger made it easier, since social circles were less estabilished
Long version in spoilers, for the ones who don't want to read crap just avoid
Spoiler (highlight to view)
But it went like this:
I had this girl I knew since we were like 7 years old, when I was about 13 I started noticing her and vice versa. The problem was, she didn't grew to be so cute and I + my 4 friends were something like the popular group, when I told them about she liking me they laughed and say she was ugly etcetc. This went on the whole year, she tried to talk to me and I always dished her out only considering how other would look at me. Started dating a cuter girl I didn't like and stuff. In the end of the year after class she took me to a deserted place and started crying, saying she liked me and how I was acting different from the boy she liked. I got angry and said...well things one person should never say to another. Days after that she left the school, I felt like crap and cryied a lot and then decided I would NEVER look down on someone because of looks, likes and dislikes. The next day I said the same thing I told you guys to my friends, 2 of them said "do whatever you want" and the other 2 said "I agree with you"... These two guys, 3 years later are still my best friends, people I love the most. who support me in any situation, that I trust with all my being.


I liked a girl who looked...normal and knew she liked me, once I told about this to my "friends"(not the part about me liking her) and they said, "how pitiful, she's so ugly. In the end of the year After some time with this going, me ignoring her, she trying to talk to me. She said she like me and that I was acting different from how I was before, I hurted her a lot, she cryied and left the school. After that I decided I wouldn't look doen on others because of looks nor likings.
I told my friends about that(four at the time) 2 just "ignored" and the other 2 agreed with me, and today are still my best friends.

Now I think, what would I be today if I never had told them about how I felt?
I would still have the same "friends" , still "like" the same girls, I would still be the shit I was then

I know it really isn't easy to be open about it, but I just HIGHLY recommend him to tell them, by doing this he will only be separating, the persons who can bring him joy and the ones who are just holding his happiness back....

Well telling them or not, I really wish the bst to you since I can relate to this

Vanishcore
Post #427415 - Reply to (#427413) by Klapzi
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10:10 pm, Nov 26 2010
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Quote from Klapzi
Firstly, yeah, I have a Girlfriend and in 4 days we will complete 2 years of realtionship

About sakura's "case"
I think both mamsmilk and you are wrong in a way(mamsmilk I wish everyone in the world was like you)

It's not easy as mamsmilk say, but it's not impossible as you say...

I know because I already had an situation like yours, tough I was younger at the time and I think being younger made it easier, since social circles were less estabilished
Long version in spoilers, for the ones who don't want to read crap just avoid
Spoiler (highlight to view)
But it went like this:
I had this girl I knew since we were like 7 years old, when I was about 13 I started noticing her and vice versa. The problem was, she didn't grew to be so cute and I + my 4 friends were something like the popular group, when I told them about she liking me they laughed and say she was ugly etcetc. This went on the whole year, she tried to talk to me and I always dished her out only considering how other would look at me. Started dating a cuter girl I didn't like and stuff. In the end of the year after class she took me to a deserted place and started crying, saying she liked me and how I was acting different from the boy she liked. I got angry and said...well things one person should never say to another. Days after that she left the school, I felt like crap and cryied a lot and then decided I would NEVER look down on someone because of looks, likes and dislikes. The next day I said the same thing I told you guys to my friends, 2 of them said "do whatever you want" and the other 2 said "I agree with you"... These two guys, 3 years later are still my best friends, people I love the most. who support me in any situation, that I trust with all my being.


I liked a girl who looked...normal and knew she liked me, once I told about this to my "friends"(not the part about me liking her) and they said, "how pitiful, she's so ugly. In the end of the year After some time with this going, me ignoring her, she trying to talk to me. She said she like me and that I was acting different from how I was before, I hurted her a lot, she cryied and left the school. After that I decided I wouldn't look doen on others because of looks nor likings.
I told my friends about that(four at the time) 2 just "ignored" and the other 2 agreed with me, and today are still my best friends.

Now I think, what would I be today if I never had told them about how I felt?
I would still have the same "friends" , still "like" the same girls, I would still be the shit I was then

I know it really isn't easy to be open about it, but I just HIGHLY recommend him to tell them, by doing this he will only be separating, the persons who can bring him joy and the ones who are just holding his happiness back....

Well telling them or not, I really wish the bst to you since I can relate to this


woah, never expected such a high-quality post in the internet eek
but yeah, somethings humans do are stupid, but we can learn from them and do things better next time, if we get a second chance.

anyway, i almost cried after i read your post o.o

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pyonk
Post #427436 - Reply to (#427409) by Mamsmilk
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2:15 am, Nov 27 2010
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Quote from ShadowSakura
yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

You're just being delusional.
What kind of person could possibly
stop being friends with someone if s/he
is dating someone why the person in question
would not date.


this is what you call society.
There may be schools were it doesn´t matter.
But there are schools were it does

I'm also part of the society, and I wouldn't care even
if you dated a goldfish. As long as you actually haven't tested,
you cannot say what the outcome is.


it would be good if all society like yours,
but unfortunately i have to agree with sakura,
in my school society, there is a bunch of hypocrite.
and people divided as famous, nerd, invisible, sociable, bullier, and those who get bullied.
You will not want to get caught befriend with those who caught excluded or different "groups" with you. let alone going out with one of them.
society is horrible. especially when you dont know what is right and what is wrong.
you should know where when to act blind, high and mighty, also bow down.
its tough being an adolescent nowadays... sad

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Fawkes
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2:48 am, Nov 27 2010
Posts: 83


I'm forever alone.

daisukidesuyo
Post #427447 - Reply to (#426065) by ShadowSakura
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4:06 am, Nov 27 2010
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Quote from ShadowSakura
yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them


That whole "group" thing makes me realize how glad I am that I'm in college now.

Anyways, well, maybe they won't actually mind? If they are worth hanging out with, then they should actually at least act like a friend to you and respect your decisions. The whole part about "schools where it does matter/schools where it doesn't": that isn't based off the school. That's based off the maturity of the people in it. And if people actually do care about your business, then they need to grow up and you don't need to care about them. And also, having the support of your friends increases the chances that you guys will last.

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Post #427456 - Reply to (#427436) by pyonk
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5:05 am, Nov 27 2010
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yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

You're just being delusional.
What kind of person could possibly
stop being friends with someone if s/he
is dating someone why the person in question
would not date.


this is what you call society.
There may be schools were it doesn´t matter.
But there are schools were it does

I'm also part of the society, and I wouldn't care even
if you dated a goldfish. As long as you actually haven't tested,
you cannot say what the outcome is.


it would be good if all society like yours,
but unfortunately i have to agree with sakura,
in my school society, there is a bunch of hypocrite.
and people divided as famous, nerd, invisible, sociable, bullier, and those who get bullied.
You will not want to get caught befriend with those who caught excluded or different "groups" with you. let alone going out with one of them.
society is horrible. especially when you dont know what is right and what is wrong.
you should know where when to act blind, high and mighty, also bow down.
its tough being an adolescent nowadays... sad


I agree, I had a secret relationship when I was in high school just because I was the unpopular kid and the guy was popular. We knew it would cause more harm than good to be open about it. After a while though it got too much, it hurt me too much to see him being set up by his mates, even when he assured me it was just for the sake of apperances. It got too stressful for him as well, to always be divided between being part of the gang and not hurting my feelings. So I broke it off, high school is not a place you want to be without a crowd. Luckily in the Uk we leave high school at 16, and from then on life was great. No cares about groups and such in college or uni, in fact the ones who stood out were the ones everyone wanted to be friends with. Me and the guy still hook up from time to time, we're good friends. The thing stopping us now is the fact my brother is his best friend and my brother is majorly overprotective of me. (FYI the guy is my age). If we made it official it would never work because we would feel like we were trapped, obliged to make it work because it had cost him a friend. I don't want that, I doubt he does either.

My point is that, sometimes, society wins over love and some relationships are forced underground. I hope you guys last Shadow, but it's hard to stick it out. Don't let yourself get hurt, sometimes you have to know when to draw the line and say enough. Good luck!

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mamoru
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6:13 am, Nov 27 2010
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The poll results are a little unexpected lol
Suddenly, I don't feel so lonely anymore.
Sure one day I want to have one bigrazz

ShadowSakura
Post #427464 - Reply to (#427456) by CuthienSilmeriel
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6:35 am, Nov 27 2010
Posts: 2705


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yes, i have a bf <3 but it´s complicated since we don´t want our friends to know about (we are in different "groups")


so sad... coz you two can't go public.
what happen if the others know you two were dating?

Probably nothing.


probably nothing life threatening.

they wouldn´t accept our realtionship. They are "friends" not friends, but you still need them

You're just being delusional.
What kind of person could possibly
stop being friends with someone if s/he
is dating someone why the person in question
would not date.


this is what you call society.
There may be schools were it doesn´t matter.
But there are schools were it does

I'm also part of the society, and I wouldn't care even
if you dated a goldfish. As long as you actually haven't tested,
you cannot say what the outcome is.


it would be good if all society like yours,
but unfortunately i have to agree with sakura,
in my school society, there is a bunch of hypocrite.
and people divided as famous, nerd, invisible, sociable, bullier, and those who get bullied.
You will not want to get caught befriend with those who caught excluded or different "groups" with you. let alone going out with one of them.
society is horrible. especially when you dont know what is right and what is wrong.
you should know where when to act blind, high and mighty, also bow down.
its tough being an adolescent nowadays... sad


I agree, I had a secret relationship when I was in high school just because I was the unpopular kid and the guy was popular. We knew it would cause more harm than good to be open about it. After a while though it got too much, it hurt me too much to see him being set up by his mates, even when he assured me it was just for the sake of apperances. It got too stressful for him as well, to always be divided between being part of the gang and not hurting my feelings. So I broke it off, high school is not a place you want to be without a crowd. Luckily in the Uk we leave high school at 16, and from then on life was great. No cares about groups and such in college or uni, in fact the ones who stood out were the ones everyone wanted to be friends with. Me and the guy still hook up from time to time, we're good friends. The thing stopping us now is the fact my brother is his best friend and my brother is majorly overprotective of me. (FYI the guy is my age). If we made it official it would never work because we would feel like we were trapped, obliged to make it work because it had cost him a friend. I don't want that, I doubt he does either.

My point is that, sometimes, society wins over love and some relationships are forced underground. I hope you guys last Shadow, but it's hard to stick it out. Don't let yourself get hurt, sometimes you have to know when to draw the line and say enough. Good luck!


thanks to all of you, but just to say, please don´t make my relationship a case. We have already accepted the fact that our friends shouldn´t know about our realtionship, but i think that this makes our bond stronger.


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