That got me thinking. The thing is, I get addicted to things on purpose. I actively seek out things that I'm able to get obsessive over. Things that are rewarding or interesting and can soak up hundreds or thousands of hours of my time. I could restrain myself from the object/activity (whether it be a movie, videogame, tv series, book, or activity such as running or playing a sport) but I don't. I instead fan the flames of my addiction until I can almost think of nothing else.
See, being addicted to things is my way of coping with life. I consistently have no motivation or am bored.
However, when I'm addicted, suddenly I have an all-encompassing need. I NEED to do it. Now I have an incentive. My room is never cleaner than when I'm addicted, and my grades are never better. I use what I'm addicted to as a reward; the faster and better I do something, the faster I can get back to my addiction. I've been doing this for around 10 years now. I have straight A's, a steady part time job, and my chores always get done. It's been working for me, yet my friends statement made me wonder how other people motivate themselves, or cope, or whatever. (Since its obvious that she doesn't use addiction as her reward)
Anyway, point of the thread; How do you stay motivated? How do you force yourself do things that need to be done even if you don't want to? How do you cope with the necessities of life?
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