Have you read any good shoujo or josei titles that depict the male love interest as a physically masculine male in the Western sense (muscular, big, strong), i.e., not as a bishounen or as a nerd? (I love those two categories as well, but I was pleasantly surprised with and very much enjoyed the male lead of Kore wa Koi no Hanashi.)
I'm flexible on personality--I'm just curious to see if there are more shoujo or josei without the typical young pretty boy or nerd love interest.
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