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There is lots of shoujo with the female MC reluctantly falling in love with someone who treats her like shit/is constantly bullying her. I don't know if that's what you're looking for though. Can't give any recs here as I don't read this stuff.
Mostly yes. Which is depressing.
NG Life has this denial, but it's very different from what you'd expect.
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The male MC is originally uninterested in the girl because he's fixated on his lover from his past life... who came back as a boy.
Working!! The male MC is a lolicon and the love interest is a misandrist.
The End of Youth. The only yoai I would own up to having read.
Superior. Because they're both trying to kill each other. It's a cliche that *barely* works but it does work to a degree.