A: "I hate you"
B: "but I love you"
A: "ok, I love you too honey!!!!"
---- NO MAN WHAT DAFUQ.
what I want is a process! From A to B, how exactly did you get from hate to love?
The rivals theme works as well, but in most series there was never really any hate in the first place and the romance is just plain forced. they are only together because the artist forced them to be the main characters! most times I cannot see this happening in real life at all.
DO WANT
genuine dislike, irritation, fear, disdain, etc. GENUINE. that means when he winks at the girl she feels sickened, disgusted, and doesn't act like a stupid shoujo heroine. Feels bitter inside, whether showing it or not.
It could be mutual hatred, or one sided, openly shown or hidden deep down-- either is ok. I just want to get into a story where the two struggle to get along, and see something in the other that makes them genuinely fall in love. I want tension in the relationship. But I want to feel that it progresses where the love is natural, like they are meant to be and that being together is a beautiful thing.
sorry for the long request. I'm craving this but I have yet to see many good series. I'm open to most genre as long as it is well narrated. Do not like gore, hentai, mature topics though, but if you feel the story is awesome anyways, recommend away!
Many thanks! ^o^
my sucky examples:
Bara no Tameni
Aoi calls Yuri fat and ugly and endlessly insults her. Seemed to have petty hate in the beginning, until he spends time with her.
Tomodachi no Hanashi
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How Narugami had a horrible impression of girls and bullied Eiko, only to truly like her in the end.
Cheese in the Trapomfg this. this. I can't praise it enough.