|What have you done when ... something concerning a friend or family member is "wrong".
(I guess this could extent to people you know, but wouldn't call a friend)
Examples - If you're friend isn't going out with a good person, or you just don't like said person.
- A family member has a bad habit.
- Someone you know is doing drugs.
- You found out a friend is cheating on his girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse.
- You saw someone cheat on a test or shoplifting
- Your friend lied to someone else right in front of you.
Also how did you feel with what you ended up doing in the situation.
Anything concerning rape, abuse, or anything else that would put this thread in the 18+ section put under a spoiler
My what have I done:
- "Friend going out with someone I didn't like"
So far this has happened ... twice. One was with my friend going out with an ex boyfriend of mine.(errr long story), but I just told her I'm happy that she's happy, but just to be careful. The other time I just got a bad vibe from the guy. I told her that I have a feeling that he's not a good person, so please keep that in mind that it's possible I may be right. I didn't push any further.
- "Found out a friend of mine was cheating on his girlfriend"
Yeah ... sadly I just kept quite. I mean he was my friend, and although I did voice "seriously wtf" to him, I never said anything to his gf. I don't know, I felt bad not saying anything, but at the same time I didn't lose any sleep over it ... Actually he did that to ... three of his girlfriends. Like I said he's my friend I wasn't theirs. I think he's an okay friend, but I would never date him.
Spoiler (mouse over to view)
- "Know someone that was getting physically abused by person they are dating"
*sigh* this has happened twice already, and they were both family members. What I did ... I kept quiet and listening to them. (Note I was 6 and 7 when this happened). For one of them she's still with the guy, but luckily he stopped hitting her. The other, she left him. Honestly I felt horrible not saying anything, but as I said before I was a kid ...
*sigh* Having dealt with those events before if it were to happen again with a friend or another family member I would still just listen, and stay quiet. I would want the person to know I am against her(or him) staying with the person, but I'm always here to help if needed. Something one of them had said "No matter what anyone says or does it's up to the person getting abuse to decide when to leave, and there's nothing you can do to speed up the process"
However if that person ends up in the hospital I probably would tell the cops everything. ( ehhh that would get complicated though if the person still wouldn't want to leave after that) ...
- "Someone shoplifting"
.... I didn't say anything to get them in trouble, but I did try to drill in into them of the consequences and pleaded with them to stop. How I said I told you so when they got caught.
ahhh I'm not a nice person.
Yes yes I know I make longwinded comments, but that's just me >.<
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So keep in mind I'm filled with typos
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