Remember me? the girl who posted about her crush who has liked (which is not) my best friend, he didn't actually like my bestfriend his crush became a mystery (LOL) no one knows his crush only his closest friend does.

I already confessed to him and he didn't respond like he always does, i would call it rejected because he didn't said a thing after that.

Days passed after my confession things between us became awkward we stopped talking to each other even though i didn't decide to tell him let's ignore each other and i didn't also told him that i liked him for 7 years, no time was left because there was an open forum when i told him i like him secretly i just whispered it on his ears.

The day before our recognition i found out that his ranking became low he was on top 3 before now he's on top 6 which made his mom very upset, later on i found out that his mom wanted him not to attend the recognition because of his low ranking i was in a shock and very depressed.

On the recognition day i was very happy that he manage to attend however he's transferring schools in grade 9 his friend told us i faked a smile but deep inside i was so sad i could cry and i said "so what?" and i saw him with no reaction.

When i got home i cried a lot even now, i dont know what to do he was my inspiration, my energy to go to school and make him acknowledge me however now it's over i dont know what to do should i forget about him? and move on? or should i fake a smile forever? or i would still love him at the very end?

HELP! (

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"Im a little girl who once had a hole in her heart"

This guy is trouble. He keeps leading you on and doesn't reciprocate your feelings (for 7 years no less). The reason why I said he's leading you on is because he refused that he had a crush on your best friend, and made his crush a secret. And don't even try to refuse this, I know you harbored the teeny tiniest hope that his crush might have been you. The other reason why I feel that he is trouble is because he didn't have the spine to refuse you properly. Ignoring the person is not the solution to a confession. The least he could have done is said a proper no. It's not that hard believe me.

If I remember right, that guy is your age. If so, then you are still 14? or 15 at the best. You have a long life ahead. You will eventually forget and forgive. I am 17 and I have had my fair share of crushes till date, none of which could be fulfilled. Needless to say, I have gotten over my crushes and am very happy with my current life. Granted that none of them lasted for 7 years, but this is a fact - we are teenagers and we keep changing and forming new opinions. Give this a few months, and you will get over him and will reminisce this with a smile on your face.

These few months are going to be hard, but you have to persevere. You have many others who bring meaning to your life other than your crush. If not for yourself, you have to try to be happy for them because no one worries more about you than them.
Keep smiling, and one day it will actually be real. Till then you have many people to support you

Last edited by bakerygirl at 8:51 pm, Mar 29 2014

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*Sigh*
This is why we told you to stop confessing and just try to move on early...

It appears to me that, even from the start, you never wanted to give up on him, so, what's the use of the earlier thread then?? Haha ^^

Yep, again, I'll say, just forget about him. It's not that my opinion will do anything anyway..

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Are you like 13? This is some dumb drama....... You're still in younger days don't go out and waste it on some boy you think you love.

Sounds like one of those romance drama manga. Not to be mean but is this for real? If it is then forget him and concentrate on what your suppose to be doing (education) and not worry about boys. Eventually someone will show up that appreciates you for who you are. You will be better off and much happier in the long run. Fact is most girls lives get screwed up when they are boy crazy at search an early age.

thanks alot

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"Im a little girl who once had a hole in her heart"

You're welcome

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