Quote from John21
You know though men don't have much rights when it comes to these kind of matters when shouldn't they really? I mean half of his genes are in that fetus, he is also responsible for its 'creation'.
It affects his life as well.
I believe men can love their children as much if not more than their mothers.
Women are being affected more in terms of delivering the baby etc but after all that is over I believe both are being affected equally and that should be taken into account.
Of course, men can love their children as much as women.
I was never talking about the love of a parent which can only be understood when experienced (in my opinion).
(And we are talking about abortion here, so no need to stress the time after the child is born.)
Even though the child consists of both it's parent's DNA, it grows inside the womans body for 9 months. This is an undeniable difference in connection, I believe.
Biologically speaking, woman also invest way more then men into bearing offspring. They feed the fetus with their body and carry it around with them until it is ready to be born.
Men contribute in giving sperm. After this, there is no rational need for them in the process of childbearing. Not that they don't want to, but they don't have to.
A woman has to live with that organism growing in her body. Men don't.
There is no argument, nothing a man can do, that changes this fact.
Thus giving the woman the right to decide, I think.
(Also, men produce a lot more sperm then woman produce eggs and could reproduce many times a day. Woman can reproduce over the course of 3-4 days maximum every month.
For a man, a lost chance is one in a million. Not so for women.)