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9:58 am, Oct 14 2018
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Someone be my friend!! I’m lonely and sad. We can talk about manga or anime or life, I don’t care... Someone talk to meeeee...
To start a conversation I’ll do an intro. Hello I’m a 19 years ild Asian who live in the US and I go to college cause why not and I spend all my time doing he in the library, that’s why I got no friend T^T.



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10:03 am, Oct 14 2018
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Sombody post hi plz XD (Gosh I’m so desperate).... I promise I’ll reply!!

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12:11 pm, Oct 14 2018
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Hmm. Well, hi.
Lol. If you want a wider more engaged audience, as in more friends, I suggest a chatting platform like public discord groups. Personally, friends don't come when you go 'I need a friend', 'cause there's pressure in that lol.

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12:11 pm, Oct 14 2018
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It's a peculiarity of humans that a request for help from a complete stranger tends not to be answered. The way to pursue this quest online, I suggest, is to participate in forums about manga. Reddit seems to have a nice one. As you keep participating, folks will get an idea of what kind of person you are, and particularly that you're a safe person, and will become your online friends. This can take a long time, but should pay off in the end.

I don't know how folks make the transition to friends IRL.

I also recommend getting rid of that image that represents you. It makes you look a bit like you might be troublesome to know.

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12:16 pm, Oct 14 2018
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Ohh thanks for the critique... I’ll go on a quest to become a better person now XD

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1:21 pm, Oct 14 2018
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lol yeah @cecropiamoth speaks truth. It takes a while to get online friends, and reddit is a pretty interactive platform. Very quick replies, although the forums get archived quickly as well

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2:14 pm, Oct 14 2018
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Well, it's not really a quest to be a better person. It's more a matter of understanding what works best in social interactions. I spent most of my life not understanding such things.


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2:50 pm, Oct 14 2018
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Well then a quest to be a better social interactor..? Well I’ll go on a quest for something

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3:44 pm, Oct 14 2018
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fortune favors the bold
no one ever made a friend sitting at home without ever putting themselves out there

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I also recommend getting rid of that image that represents you. It makes you look a bit like you might be troublesome to know.


wow that's terrible advice

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3:51 pm, Oct 14 2018
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Shrug. You do you. Typically when people go on quest they come across other people also on quest and they band together to form a party. I hope that is what happens for you. Lol

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7:04 pm, Oct 14 2018
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Yeah... that’s my “something” quest... basically just running around until I found another one like me then form a party.

Ohh and this is my form of bold tho XD... I would like to think of this forum as putting myself out here

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1:19 am, Oct 15 2018
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Quote from F_J
Lol. If you want a wider more engaged audience, as in more friends, I suggest a chatting platform like public discord groups.

Discord? Pff, IRC is what the cool kids use.

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7:38 am, Oct 15 2018
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Sure, feel free to PM me to chat. There are a lot of people out there, you'll bound to find someone whom you can talk to about certain things at least. I rather think of friendship developing as a natural extension of enjoying to talk or do things with another being.


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10:42 am, Oct 15 2018
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Hello,as someone who finds it extremely stressful to interact with others(this post included btw)it's tough avoiding feeling lonely from time to time,if you're ever too bored and you literally can't think of anything better to do,send me a dm and hopefully I'll be entertaining enough.

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9:46 pm, Oct 15 2018
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Ohh my... uhh thank you so much for your guys’ response. I’m actually super busy on the weekdays but super free on the weekend, and it got to the point where I post this forum because I was so bored. I was so surprised that you guys even wanted me to DM you. Thank you for all of the advice and kind words. It really warmed my heart.

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