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it's important to understand that media often reflects the state of the world.
Such as how it is common for young school girls to get molested on trains/buses, and how they normally just stay silent and let it happen, seemingly even more afraid of people realising what it being done to them, than of what is being done to them.
…and how peeking at naked girls/women, without their consent, is just "boys being boys".
Just simply what guys do.
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I can't count how many times I have been deeply sickened, by girls being worried about the risk of a guy or guys doing what amounts to a serious sexual crime, because they are, after all "healthy boy(s)".
What the hell is healthy, about violating someone!?
…and why do you choose to be with people, you suspect would do such atrocious acts!?
(note: this does not include being worried about, say, being alone in a house with ones boyfriend …as it's more likely a worry about what they might get tempted/convinced to agree to, [and not necessarily regret, either, but…] rather than being forced)
…and then there is all the instances of invalid consent (Japanese society has yet to get a proper understanding of proper consent…), or just completely inarguable rape, of a character by their love interest who they get together with (despite the rape, which typically isn't presented as in any way bad), that is not all that rare. (especially in yaoi, I've heard)
So the view of what counts as a crime/violation, is rather off, and victims are, (really quite sickeningly) ashamed and shamed, despite having done absolutely nothing wrong.
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because women are still treated more as brides-to-be than... y'know... people with aspirations beyond the bedroom and the kitchen.
It is a worryingly common and international problem, that women tend not to be seen as people (incels being an extreme example, but it's an issue even more commonly)
…but Japan is certainly among the worst and most backwards, among developed nations, in this regard.
With women mainly just housewives-to-be, who only work until they find a husband, which they need to get before age 25.
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I won't pretend I have the perfect solution to the issue, but I think an important change is for fashion culture to reclaim the original Japanese term of "doll fashion."
Japans problems with loli/shota predates, and exists separate to, "doll fashion".
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This WAS an issue, which is why many current games have you playing as someone who's legally ALLOWED to shoot/…/
Eh, no.
It has never been an issue (aside from moral panic idiots getting upset about it, which they will still do, as long as they contain violence of any kind), and new games don't all have you "legally" shoot people.
Also, the question of a link between fictional violence and real life violence has been very thoroughly studied, and the results are very clear:
There is none.
Period.
Last edited by zarlan at 10:33 am, Dec 28 2020