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How Do You Deal With A Broken Heart?

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So. What do YOU do to deal with a broken heart?
Binge. On food. Or alcohol. Or movies. Or manga. Or anything, really. BIIIIIIIINGE.
Bury myself in a dark little room and mope.
Cry. Very quietly. Where no one else can hear me.
Cry. Very loudly. Where all my unfortunate friends can hear me.
Burn it all! The old photographs, the gifts, the Valentine's Day cards...
Anonymous sex! In anonymous places! Or really well-known places. Whatever.
Ill-advised pity-sex with friends who will regret it afterwards!
Rebound! As in, quickly find new people to date, or at least put myself out there.
Revenge! It's a dish best served steaming hot, I tells ya! Like that dung I left in their driveway...
Stalking! It's the cure to all ills. Hey, if I can't have 'em, at least I can WATCH 'em.
Sabotage! Ruin the other person's chance of finding any other relationships.
Courtship! I never give up. I am the Energizer Bunny of heartbreak! They WILL take me back!
Makeover! I change myself physically, e.g. cutting my hair or working out. I'm a new me!
Nothing. I just go on with my normal life, hollow-eyed and looking like the living dead.
I've never had a broken heart. Because I've never been in love. :-|
I've never had a broken heart. Because I'm "rational". (Translation: I AM AN EVIL ROBOT.)
Other. (I am vastly more creative than your puny brain can imagine, pollster.)
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Post #374963
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12:00 pm, Apr 28 2010
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The poll says it all. Choose your poison.

Please do detail your recovery strategies if they are not to be found on the poll, though!

And an interesting question: Have your ways of dealing with a broken heart changed? Like, did you binge-eat at one time but now you find yourself going for makeovers? Just curious about whether the nature of the relationship or the degree of a person's maturity can change their post-heartbreak behavior, or whether it's a personality thing, and people just deal with it the same way every time.

Thank you for your input!

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2:28 pm, Apr 28 2010
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2:40 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Without love im a hollow shell.

After trouble with such things I see a 50% rise in the romance manga I read :/

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2:47 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Never been in love, but when things suck... binger and moper.

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2:48 pm, Apr 28 2010
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I've never experienced that kind of heart break so I don't know how I'd react to it.

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2:50 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Does getting wasted and having anonymous sex count as one ?

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It's him!!
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2:53 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Pshaw, who needs those stupid feelings and emotions. They make you weak and flimsy!

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2:54 pm, Apr 28 2010
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I've never been in love. But when things get me down, I watch my favorite funny youtube videos or I go out with my friends until the early morning. I don't like feeling down, since that brings the others around me down as well.

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3:37 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Alcohol, Nuff said.

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4:08 pm, Apr 28 2010
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A strange combination of revenge, rebound and that aforementioned anonymous sex.

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Pretty sure I've never been in love but when I split with the b/f I gave my virginity to I slept around a wee bit and when I was younger and split with my childhood sweetheart I kissed around a wee bit, lol. Guess that's my coping mechanism, making sure I'm still desirable. It will backfire one day but oh well, enjoy it while I'm young enough to get away with it!

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4:20 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Nothing.

I don't need to. I'll get over it
and realise how foolish it was to begin with.

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6:14 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Fall back in my other loves: My rc planes and helis and my mangas :3 ......... and go on workaholic mode to get my mind buzy

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Post #375041 - Reply to (#375014) by Mamsmilk
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Quote from Mamsmilk
Nothing.

I don't need to. I'll get over it
and realise how foolish it was to begin with.

Pretty much this.

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Post #375044 - Reply to (#375008) by Whitebeard
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7:01 pm, Apr 28 2010
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Quote from Whitebeard
Alcohol, Nuff said.

agreed
and hummus

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