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How Do You Deal With A Broken Heart?

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So. What do YOU do to deal with a broken heart?
Binge. On food. Or alcohol. Or movies. Or manga. Or anything, really. BIIIIIIIINGE.
Bury myself in a dark little room and mope.
Cry. Very quietly. Where no one else can hear me.
Cry. Very loudly. Where all my unfortunate friends can hear me.
Burn it all! The old photographs, the gifts, the Valentine's Day cards...
Anonymous sex! In anonymous places! Or really well-known places. Whatever.
Ill-advised pity-sex with friends who will regret it afterwards!
Rebound! As in, quickly find new people to date, or at least put myself out there.
Revenge! It's a dish best served steaming hot, I tells ya! Like that dung I left in their driveway...
Stalking! It's the cure to all ills. Hey, if I can't have 'em, at least I can WATCH 'em.
Sabotage! Ruin the other person's chance of finding any other relationships.
Courtship! I never give up. I am the Energizer Bunny of heartbreak! They WILL take me back!
Makeover! I change myself physically, e.g. cutting my hair or working out. I'm a new me!
Nothing. I just go on with my normal life, hollow-eyed and looking like the living dead.
I've never had a broken heart. Because I've never been in love. :-|
I've never had a broken heart. Because I'm "rational". (Translation: I AM AN EVIL ROBOT.)
Other. (I am vastly more creative than your puny brain can imagine, pollster.)
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Post #398385 - Reply to (#398383) by Rabin
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9:38 pm, Aug 9 2010
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Whiskey and vodka will help you get over anything and get you over to the next thing. life is much simpler that way, never dwell on depressing moments for too long just try to move on after a few drinks with your mates.


All the people I've seen take that method have winded up making the situation very much worse. xD

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9:41 pm, Aug 9 2010
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Another "Evil Robot" laugh
Well, I have never been in love, but whenever I feel down, it's impossible for me to do anything , so I just go to sleep and come back completely normal the next day.

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9:45 pm, Aug 9 2010
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Well, I haven't been on the 'receiving' end of a break-up before *knock on wood*.

But, I've been in some relationships where I broke it off while still having terribly strong feelings for the girl.

In those cases- it hurts, sure. But it's surely not a broken heart, seeing as it seems to work just fine when I go out and have fun with people shortly after.

Ah, and frankly, if you break up with someone, that means that there are relationships out there that are guaranteed to be better than the one you just got out of. Most people are just too lazy to find them, so they take what falls in their lap.

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9:45 pm, Aug 9 2010
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I've never been in a relationship (since I'm still young, anyway), so I've never had a broken heart. But in other situations with a broken heart, I'll cry quietly.

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10:07 pm, Aug 9 2010
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never had broken heart like u said and never been in real love....

had been in some relationship though and when it broke I juz get on with my life and get over it naturally mayb coz it wasn't deep enough... eyes

besides, i always avoid love relationship.....don't need it now.... eyes

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10:09 pm, Aug 9 2010
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depending on the severity of the heartbreak ill either have a rebound relationship or ill get really depressed.ive been cheated on,lied to, dumped by text pretty much dumped in the worst ways possible and after the last breakup i was just done and i didnt want anyone cause i was so depressed id just sit on the couch all day long and literally do nothing.but friends are a real help when it comes to breakups. cause my bestfriend introduced me to a girl that i fell in love with and made me forget abt all past heartbreaks. and im hoping this girl is "the one" and i will never again have to deal with heartbreaks biggrin biggrin biggrin

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10:18 pm, Aug 9 2010
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I honestly don't know what to select... I've liked people, and when I find out that they're with someone or like someone else, then I don't really do anything... I don't seriously like that person enough to really care... haha. Yeah, I've never hooked up with anyone. Only had small crushes.

Soooo I didn't select anything. biggrin

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6:53 am, Aug 10 2010
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I was sad, but I didn't cry at all confused
I liked him a lot and I didn't forget about him but I never cried. none
Actually, I cheered up a LOT on that day when it happened because I didn't want to show him I was sad.

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Let's see.....I always end up doing a combination of crying quietly, crying loudly, rebounding, and "nothing". At first, whether I got rejected or dumped, I feel no misery. I actually become happy with a positive "It was for the best/I can do better attitude".Then the tears kick in out of nowhere at the most random time.

Usually, the cycle goes like this. Heartbroken => don't care, do nothing =>cry quietly => cry to friends => rebound. Always rebound. I can skip 3 steps and go straight to rebounding or rebound during everything, but I will always eventually rebound.

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8:36 am, Aug 10 2010
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I've never had my heart broken, but I have felt despair once before, and I think my reaction would be similar to that? Probably.
What I did was I cried; I cried my hardest and longest. I cried until the tears wouldn't come anymore. I cried without caring who heard me. I cried the pain away. And then after I cried, I slept, and then cried some more. I did this for around 2 days... and then I didn't feel like crying anymore. After that I accepted my despair. Then I felt better, although the last shadows of despair it didn't go away for a week or two more, but I no longer felt like I was breaking in two.


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8:46 am, Aug 10 2010
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I've never been in love before either, but a couple times I reeeeaaaallllly liked a guy and I was pretty hurt when it didnt work out. at times like those, I creep on hot guys on facebook. looking at attractive men makes me feel better.

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8:47 am, Aug 10 2010
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I just go on living like a zombie.

Kinda broken hearted now. Just moved here and was really liking this girl I've known for a long time, but I'm not ready to jump into a relationship, so I asked if we just slow down. Invited her to dinner last week, she blows me off, next day I get a text saying "we can only be friends K, I've found someone." Of course I was just like "oh really, im happy for you."

Inside I'm thinking about lighting myself on fire.

It's some fucking older guy with a kid, what in the fuck does he have that I don't. So I've been just wandering the city on my skate, drinking and looking like a zombie. dead

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11:12 am, Aug 10 2010
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Courtship! I never give up. I am the Energizer
Bunny of heartbreak! They WILL take me back!
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LOL if i really love him I'll try pretty dang
hard to win em' back and if i can't


Binge. On food. Or alcohol. Or movies. Or manga.
Or anything, really. BIIIIIIIINGE.
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11:44 am, Aug 10 2010
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I've never had my heart broken(or been in love) but i know what i would do it that were the case.
SEX! Lots and lots of it! With anyone or anything that strikes my fancy!
and then afterward i would probably drink vodka and cry myself to sleepsmile

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either drown it out with women and alcohol or give it time

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