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3:41 pm, Jul 5 2010
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I would say its depend on what kind of family do you have, as for me I would choose my family. But there are ppl who arent lucky enough to be born in good+loving family, so I cant really say for them.

as for me I would choose my family, though I really doubt they would force their way on me.

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I would choose my family. They're kind and loving and they care about me and know what's best for me. Also, they wouldn't make me marry a relative o.o

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It depends on the situation your in, the type of family you have and what kind of lover you have.

Sometimes you can even choose both.

For someone like me equality is everything. I can't simply make a choice on who do I love most. I love my family to no end. But if the time when I find someone who's really worth it and worthy to be part of my family comes, hopefully I can choose both my family and my lover. I mean if your family truly cares for you and knows what's best for you and your lover happens to be what's best for you then wouldn't they accept? But of course, the best things don't come easily (:

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5:49 pm, Jul 5 2010
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Family...
No matter how bad and terrible they really are, family will always be my priority...
Love without family permission is just a big mistake, i bet no one would ever live happier and stick together for the rest of their life w.out the bless of family especially mom and dad...

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I picked family because I have no idea what or how love is, and I have no intentions on finding out.

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i would have to pick love because i would want my own family with the one that i love. I get along with my family pretty well but going through hardships with the one you love is more rewarding in the long run

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9:36 pm, Jul 8 2010
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Personal choice would be Love. Im not really fond of family.

However, I have moral values and such and I feel I owe my family, as such I would chose Family over love, even though its not the choice I want to make.

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9:37 pm, Jul 8 2010
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I love my family, and my family loves me, but they would understand if I left them to pursuit love. That is why I love my family and I choose to go for love biggrin

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You should never have to choose between the two. Ideally, your family will always support your decisions, that is unless the person you "love" is really not good for you. Now, I chose love, but that was in response to the situation the OP presented. That doesn't sound like how a family should be. Family should never say, "No, you can't marry that person. You must marry this person instead." I understand there are differences between different cultures as well as social classes. However, I just don't believe in having someone decide your lifelong partner for you.

In general, I would still lean towards love, but it really depends on the situation. And this is just random observation, but everyone's mom and dad weren't family at one point. You can say you're choosing love over family, but in the end, you're still choosing family, more specifically, to start a family. So yea, think about that. laugh

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11:13 am, Aug 8 2010
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family of course. you already have the love from your family. win-win scenario. biggrin

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1:41 pm, Aug 8 2010
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It seems more people chose family, but I can't understand why. I have a nice family that I spend time with, but there's no way I would choose them over the love of my life. Granted, I've never been in love, but I already know I'd rather stay with the one I truly love than my family. Children are meant to grow up and live their own lives, and while family is still very important, I find romantic love more important than familial love.

If my family were to disapprove of who I choose, then they'd have to get over it or do what they will. I'd never deny my love to satisfy my family. That's why I hate it when two lovers are separated due to family issues. If you really do love another, then I don't believe that person should come after family.

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2:02 pm, Aug 8 2010
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I meant to choose "love." It's ridiculous to choose a family like that over love. That love might not last, but that family is obviously not a good one. There are some instances where choosing family over love is the better choice, if the love is the bad one, and you come from a good family. But when a family says "do this or you're out" that's an abusive one, and it's not good to stick with them.

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I'm confident in the fact that my family (mother) would never ask me to choose between the two. The person I love being a guy or a girl, she already pray that someday I will introduce this person to her because I don't usually talk about this.
As for my other relative, I don't have enough contact with them to care about their opinion.

But if someday the person I love ask me to choose between her or my family, I believe I would choose family because I absolutely hate this kind of situation where someone force me to make a choice I wouldn't think I have to do.

So if my mom ever ask me to choose (which I doubt) I would sulk and say if you don't like it then you don't have to meet with this person, just imagine she doesn't exist.
But if the person I love ask me to choose it would be more like screw you dead

I guess it makes it a draw but I would react sweeter on my mom confused

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5:44 pm, Aug 8 2010
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Go with the one you love. I know they think er...differently in most countries, but it's my belief that you do not owe your life to your family. You owe them respect, for putting up with/raising you. With that respect comes other duties, like having faith in their life choices, responsibility to take care of them in crisis etc. Never do you have to live your own life based on how they want. Not a way to find happiness amigo.

If I lived how my family wanted I would've shot myself long ago......Besides if you really are in love shit like family or friends won't stop you from being together.

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6:37 pm, Aug 8 2010
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i will choose my family...i really love and care about what they think....
but my family are very understanding and supportive, so this situation might not happen as long as I don't choose some1 with different race or religion and i'm not planning on doing that....

but there is some exception, my brother fall in love with a girl with different race, and my mom strongly object it but somehow me and my other siblings support my brother and try to persuade my mother.So, now she somehow accept it and she understand my brother really love her. So, now we are juz waiting for the wedding..... biggrin biggrin

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