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10:03 pm, Jan 19 2008
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...you know how they say a virgin will bleed on her first time? i used to think that it would be hot if i got a girl to bleed while i was doing it... i dunno why, i guess its because its like taking wings from an angel... ill prolly swear off of sex for life now... if you think about life the way that i do, you dont really get cravings anymore... i guess maybe if i got married, i would do it for her if she ever wanted it, but i would never do it for my own pleasure anymore... the only pleasure i would want to feel from it is making her happy...
I bet im the only person who thinks like this, huh?
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I bet im the only person who thinks like this, huh?
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I'd rather not have a relationship and stay a virgin.
A bachelor virgin with a $800k house, and $5k car (Ford Taurus 2002 for life).
Really, any time I thought about getting into a relationship, it doesn't seem worth it. I don't like dealing with nagging, and I don't care about doing much.
A bachelor virgin with a $800k house, and $5k car (Ford Taurus 2002 for life).
Really, any time I thought about getting into a relationship, it doesn't seem worth it. I don't like dealing with nagging, and I don't care about doing much.
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Quote from amaranthine
Ok, I was reading the other thread (Question for Female Otakus) and well, got curious on what you guys and girls think.
I personally think that the talk about female virginity has a slightly misogynistic approach to it. I mean girls who had slept with a lot of different guys are called slut/bitch/etc. but for a guy who has done the same… its seen as a good thing. Heck, they brag about it.
It’s probably a cultural thing too, but from where I grew up, guys expect their partner to sleep with them, but still want to marry a virgin. I mean… the hell does that mean?
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I forgot to add a poll! So who do you prefer to be with?
I personally think that the talk about female virginity has a slightly misogynistic approach to it. I mean girls who had slept with a lot of different guys are called slut/bitch/etc. but for a guy who has done the same… its seen as a good thing. Heck, they brag about it.
It’s probably a cultural thing too, but from where I grew up, guys expect their partner to sleep with them, but still want to marry a virgin. I mean… the hell does that mean?
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I forgot to add a poll! So who do you prefer to be with?well, i guess it´s somehow cultural, man are supossed to have experience and woman are supossed to be virgin, but still to be virgin after certain age does have negative connotations (if male, it´s tipical to suspect "he is gay" in example). It´s a kind of "machist" world we still live in, so that is what males expect, even if it doesn´t have any sense rationally speaking. So the probability to a male virgin to have his first experience with a female virgin after falling in love and marrying is near zero in my opinion (still that doesn´t mean impossible).
Well, in my case, i guess the most important is if i love the girlfriend (don´t have one), then it doesn´t really matters (well, at least i expect the girl to have decency to not have slept with tons of guys
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lol pretty late to read this, well im almost 20 and im still a virgin and so that means the source of all jokes for my friends -_-''. lol i just wanna marry a virgin and thats when i want to lose my virginity, i dont think thats a bad thing because ive seen one of my friend get his life messed up cause of having sex at a younger age and i especially dont wana go through that XD so abstinence for me is the way to go. sigh~ 
lol i call those types of guys, man-whores XD
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and so that means the source of all jokes for my friends -_-''. lol i just wanna marry a virgin and thats when i want to lose my virginity, i dont think thats a bad thing because ive seen one of my friend get his life messed up cause of having sex at a younger age and i especially dont wana go through that XD so abstinence for me is the way to go. sigh~ Quote from amaranthine
I personally think that the talk about female virginity has a slightly misogynistic approach to it. I mean girls who had slept with a lot of different guys are called slut/bitch/etc. but for a guy who has done the same… its seen as a good thing. Heck, they brag about it.
lol i call those types of guys, man-whores XD
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12:10 pm, Jan 25 2008
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I can't seem to make myself care about who people sleep with for the rest of their lives. Seriously people if you're not the one who's going to be fucked by them why should you care? Basic.
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The only real measure of whether a woman is supposed to have sex is if she's hit puberty yet. That's the natural way, just FYI.
So...as soon as a female starts having her period, she's supposed to start reproducing? After all, that's the age when it's biologically possible, so that makes it right, is that what you're saying?
Sorry, I don't think there's an argument in the universe that will convince me that 11-12-13 year old girls *should* be having babies, regardless of how biologically possible it is.
The so called "natural way" of doing things tends to lead to a lot of death & misery. I for one am quite happy for such "unnatural" things as the c-section that allowed my babies and I to be here today, alive and well. Also the "unnatural" surgery that has allowed my son to run around & be a normal kid instead of the cripple he would "naturally" be. The "natural way" is, IMO, very much overrated.
dude when i hit puberty i was 13 and 85 pound if i had a kid
then i would have probably died giving birth
I want to stay a virgin until marrage... becuz i have a trust issue
and i have a commitment issue and i don't want to hurt any1 or
be hurt myself.. also my religion... but that is a lil contrversial..
I would probably want some1 who has dont it once or twice..
becuz i don't want us to sit there and be like... "Wat do I do now??!!"
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lol pretty late to read this, well im almost 20 and im still a virgin and so that means the source of all jokes for my friends -_-''. lol i just wanna marry a virgin and thats when i want to lose my virginity, i dont think thats a bad thing because ive seen one of my friend get his life messed up cause of having sex at a younger age and i especially dont wana go through that XD so abstinence for me is the way to go. sigh~
my dad was a star swimmer and had a full ride into an awsome school
but he fucked a chick and she got pregnant so he droped out and helped
Raise the kid Ruined HIS Life
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The only real measure of whether a woman is supposed to have sex is if she's hit puberty yet. That's the natural way, just FYI.
So...as soon as a female starts having her period, she's supposed to start reproducing? After all, that's the age when it's biologically possible, so that makes it right, is that what you're saying?
Sorry, I don't think there's an argument in the universe that will convince me that 11-12-13 year old girls *should* be having babies, regardless of how biologically possible it is.
The so called "natural way" of doing things tends to lead to a lot of death & misery. I for one am quite happy for such "unnatural" things as the c-section that allowed my babies and I to be here today, alive and well. Also the "unnatural" surgery that has allowed my son to run around & be a normal kid instead of the cripple he would "naturally" be. The "natural way" is, IMO, very much overrated.
dude when i hit puberty i was 13 and 85 pound if i had a kid
then i would have probably died giving birth
I want to stay a virgin until marrage... becuz i have a trust issue
and i have a commitment issue and i don't want to hurt any1 or
be hurt myself.. also my religion... but that is a lil contrversial..
I would probably want some1 who has dont it once or twice..
becuz i don't want us to sit there and be like... "Wat do I do now??!!"
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lol pretty late to read this, well im almost 20 and im still a virgin and so that means the source of all jokes for my friends -_-''. lol i just wanna marry a virgin and thats when i want to lose my virginity, i dont think thats a bad thing because ive seen one of my friend get his life messed up cause of having sex at a younger age and i especially dont wana go through that XD so abstinence for me is the way to go. sigh~
my dad was a star swimmer and had a full ride into an awsome school
but he fucked a chick and she got pregnant so he droped out and helped
Raise the kid Ruined HIS Life
Wait, forgive me for using the word 'bastard', but that's what it seem that you are the child? The bastard child?
I hope he know about abortions back then. That's what your dad should have done, get the girl to have abortion and then give her some money so she'll never bug him again. Then your dad could've screwed around more.
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Well, it's because a girl will be called a slut/etc because it's easy to get laid with boys. It takes them a second. But boys you actually have to have skill to attract a lady's attention and gain trust, and etc.
I'd probably wouldn't care if my guy was a virgin..or not. Depends if he's good at it.
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I'd probably wouldn't care if my guy was a virgin..or not. Depends if he's good at it.
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Im a virgin and its awsome.
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Im a virgin and its awsome.
Spoken like a true virgin.
Sex is great.
Sex is grand.
But at the end of the day.
There is always your hand.
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If you are still a virgin, I suggest you go have wild and crazy sex ASAP. No seriously, go nuts. You might die tomorrow.
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This thread makes me laugh oodles.
=]
I've decided that saving my virginity until marriage isn't necessary. As long as I practice it safely, and I don't regret it, I'm good.
I say it like it's something easy to determine, haha. Oh well.
I "might die tomorrow", so I'll take my chances. :]
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I've decided that saving my virginity until marriage isn't necessary. As long as I practice it safely, and I don't regret it, I'm good.
I say it like it's something easy to determine, haha. Oh well.
I "might die tomorrow", so I'll take my chances. :]
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If you are still a virgin, I suggest you go have wild and crazy sex ASAP. No seriously, go nuts. You might die tomorrow.
That is a very bad view of life. Life isn't just about pleasures and enjoying the moments. Life is the whole experience with good and bad. It doesn't matter if you never experienced love or not. The important thing is the experience and what you can gain for your own personal elevation of thought.
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If you are still a virgin, I suggest you go have wild and crazy sex ASAP. No seriously, go nuts. You might die tomorrow.
That is a very bad view of life. Life isn't just about pleasures and enjoying the moments. Life is the whole experience with good and bad. It doesn't matter if you never experienced love or not. The important thing is the experience and what you can gain for your own personal elevation of thought.
It was sarcasm. I honestly couldn't careless if your a virgin or not.
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If you are still a virgin, I suggest you go have wild and crazy sex ASAP. No seriously, go nuts. You might die tomorrow.
That is a very bad view of life. Life isn't just about pleasures and enjoying the moments. Life is the whole experience with good and bad. It doesn't matter if you never experienced love or not. The important thing is the experience and what you can gain for your own personal elevation of thought.
you take things too seriously.
I guess teh internetz are srs bzniz
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