Ok, I was reading the other thread (Question for Female Otakus) and well, got curious on what you guys and girls think.

I personally think that the talk about female virginity has a slightly misogynistic approach to it. I mean girls who had slept with a lot of different guys are called slut/bitch/etc. but for a guy who has done the same… its seen as a good thing. Heck, they brag about it.

It’s probably a cultural thing too, but from where I grew up, guys expect their partner to sleep with them, but still want to marry a virgin. I mean… the hell does that mean?

Edit: I forgot to add a poll! So who do you prefer to be with?

I wouldn't sleep with a guy who's been around the block either.

So you can't really call that misogynism.

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I don't care about things like who sleeps with who.
I think that both men and women can be sluts.
I don't see anything in a man that just goes and
drops hair between the pillows and sheets.
I knew that the one that would make this topic would
be either me or you.

I call those guys manwhores

..or mansluts, same thing

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The main worry for me about whether a girl has had sex or not is who she's had it with.

If she gave it up to a douchebag, willingly, well she's not getting any from me.

See, it's like a punishment because IMO my penis is the greatest thing on Earth, and to be denied that is the worst thing that could happen to a girl.


But for seriously, it all depends on with whom she slept.

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Your penis is the center of the whole damn world!? O,O

This depends on who's she's slept with. If she had sex with a guy from a previous relationship, then why should anyone care? And if guys want to marry a virgin, then they better not practice premarital sex with their partner!

And both guys and girls can be sluts and whores in my world.

I thought all guys think that way... unless they're lacking on that department.

Anyway, from how I see it, most Western guys like girls to be "unvirgin", not virgin but not slutty either (like in job applications: some experience would be nice). Asians like their girls to be virgins. Not saying that all of you do, but just my personal observation.

How about girls? Who do you prefer?

(@ Mamsmilk, why me? You should have made it before I did! )

uh i know this might sound weird.. since i read like.. smut manga and etc..


but i think abstinence is better.

not to be like a prude or anything.. but the fact that someone you love has been with someone else just feels dirty.

guys who sleep around are call players

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Me (not even 18 yet...) prefers anyone really. Just not a guy who's slept with 13586 women/prostitutes through relationships and cheating... still virgin now.

Lol that is hilarious, great way to view the view the world. From your posts i thought u were a pessimistic guy, but guess i was wrong.
BTW ur a guy rite? I get confused since it says ur female and
[quote]I wouldn't sleep with a guy who's been around the block either.


And like i said i don't like sluts so i would prefer a virgin.
I wouldn't go around sleeping with all the other girls either (though that is my dream j/k)
It isnnt misogynism either.
Some girls also brag about sleeping with other girls.
Girls call guys that do that players or manwhore or w/e
Guys call girls that sluts, whores, skanks, or w/e

So i wouldnt call it misgynism, just preference
Some guys like sluts just to sleep with them anyways and they easily give in which is why they are called whores.
Some girls like guys with experience and vice-versa

Wow took me so long to type this up that so many ppl already posted b4 me.


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I call them walking STDs.


And yeah, I'm a guy. I set my gender to Female cuz I thought it would be funny.

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Exactly! "player" doesn't have the same connotaion as "whore".

Manwhore, manslut... the root word still refer to women. Do we have a word the English language that carries the same stigma for men?

@Dragoness57: We're free to choose who we want!

i would prefer a virgin... ahem and i am female...

players are yeah walking STDs... lol what a turn off..

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