You need to have a different option other and A, B, and C. Some people have very different affections for different family members. I love my mother. Even in hard times when I'm mad at her or annoyed, I never once had the "hate" word cross my mind. My father is a monster. I have tolerated many horrible human beings in my life, but he takes it a whole another level. The only thing in my life that ever made me want to end my life. They say that every child needs a mother and a father, but it's a lie - in some situations it is better for a child that they(or one of them) are absent than present. the rest of my family are strangers across the sea.

I can't really stand my mum from time to time,,,
she always compare me to others, saying I sould become like that,,, forcing stuffs on me I never wanted ....
Never ask anything about my life (like how's school?" stuffs like that),,, If something happen and I'm envolved or not she never listen to my explaination, she never attend my school meeting always busy wit works....

then there are times when she's so kind (which always give me goosebumps)

but still she's my MUM so I still love her

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A i love my family. we are a HUGE family but all very close knit with lots of family friends. my mom is rather immature at times.... she acts like a 16 year old girl. my parents are still together.

the only issue we have is the fact that my younger 17 year old sister ran off to toronto to live with her cheating abusive 30 year old scumbag of a boyfriend. we are doing all we can to get her to see sense but the only one she talks too is my youngest sister. things are getting better i think.

I love my family!!!

My mother can be a bit overprotective at times -- but that's just about the only complaint I've got, even after living with them for 20 years
Divorce has never been a consideration, of course. My parents have been in their first and only romance for 22 years and their first and only marriage for 21...and counting. Our maternal grandparents live with us, and they've been married for 48 years!

Though of course, I'm not surprised that there are so many people who hate their parents. Some mothers and fathers are so horrible to their children, I can't help but wonder why they even wanted to have kids in the first place

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I love my family

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i love them for taking care of me.
i hate them for taking too much care of me.

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Exactly my sentiments. At times, I think it's pretty sweet that she remembers the little things I mention in passing. But then her mood can swing so quickly (and I end up getting a proper beating). I used to think I loved my dad over my mum (mostly because of his non-violent ways), but now that I'm older I'm more disgusted with the things he did not do for us. Plus his words - it hurts. And as is the case with a lot of Asian parents, they're far more conerned with results than the process, which could be rather frustrating. No words of concern/interest/encouragement regarding school, but only to demand you get straight A's - like that's to be expected, the lowest standard and anything below that is deemed a failure. I just wish they were more in touch with their feelings instead of being obsessed with tangible results.

As for my brother, he could be a better person than I on his good days - far more tolerance and obedience anyway. Then when it turns to the other extreme he becomes like my mum - albeit more whiny and illogical. He can become really violent so we used to end up beating the crap out of each other in our younger days. Unfortunately, I got my head smashed into the car window once...

All in all, I neither hate nor love my family. They're a part of me that I cannot erase and they've given me some good times over the years. If they were to drop dead one day, I'd probably miss the idea of losing a loved one, but I wouldn't miss that very person... if that made any sense... It's as if I'd miss having a parental figure and what they embody (a constant for me, plus some form of stability and protectiveness) so I'd feel sad over that, but I wouldn't miss them as an individual.

I wish I loved my family - one in which there should be more open communication and mutual respect for one another. I also wish parents were better prepared for having children - not just having some for the sake of it. For instance, being a good role model, displaying good conduct, giving them more time and affection, telling them wrong from right, as well as teaching them the right set of values that lay the foundation for them to shape their future views. Of course you're not gonna find a perfect parent like that, but I hope that one day if I ever become one, I'd be ready to offer my children the best I could (and hopefully not screw up the kid's life like my parents did).

Are Asian parents really like that? 'cause I live in an Asian country (Sri Lanka, in case you're wondering), but none of the families I know have parents who threaten to kick their kids out of the house just 'cause they don't get good grades. I guess me and my friends / relatives are very lucky, then

I think the author of the post generealised too much, but she is correct as far as parents in ost asian countries go. I won't speak for any country other than my own, but calstine's description fits most of the parents around here.

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I don't hate my mom & my dad but I hate my "sick" brother, such a useless person, he just do nothing, always lazy around & acting like some kind of jerk, I wish he'll die soon (oh yeah, like that will ever going to come true), I hate that dog ever since I was 6

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My parents who brought me into this world are the ones I hate the most. My mother took drugs when I was in her stomache then abandoned me. My father also abandoned me.

Does 'family' also include your foster family? If so then my foster family deserves an A. They stuck by me and raised me even though I couldn't speak or handle being held for the first 6 years of my life. And they even stood by me even though I am a child who has very, very poor health I love them so much, without them I would have spent all my life without knowing anything about happiness

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A- I love my family alot!! My mother was married twice and my father had a kid (a.k.a my brother) with another lady but all of us live together as one. So in total I have 3 half brothers and 1 half sister and 1 brother with two sister with my mom and dad. If we dont tell anybody then nobody would have known, >_< that's how well we get along with each other!! Some times my mom and my sisters gets on my nerves and we argue sometimes but which family doesn't? But my mom and dad would do anything for me and siblings.. I guess that's the reason why were so spoiled

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C most definitely. i have a BUNCH of things wrong with my family i cant even list...so i'll say a few..

1) WAY too competitive/two faced
2) the guys in my family are WAY too cocky
3) cant take jokes (they take every joke you say literally)
4) laugh at stuff that aint even funny. (some one is seriously hurt in an accident, they all laugh like its the funniest shit in the world)
5) the treat me like a stranger.
...but hey, i personally dont give a crap about them either i FREAKING HATE THEM they can all die in a hole together

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I love my family, what i hate is what they do. like waiting to the very bloody last minute to ask a favor they know you can refuse.

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