Quote from shamful7
damn people here are stupid, I know someone who is sexually involved with his mom who is by the way very attractive and at 1st i had a hard time getting my head around it but as i saw them together i realized they truly loved each other and i was not one to judge. also for everyone that says that incest is abuse the only time u ever here of it is when u find out a dad was raping his daughter so we automatically assume its bad but 2 consensual adults who practice it would never let it be known out of fear of how society would view them so u never here about the good cases where they are in a happy relationship. I am not in love with anyone in my family that way luckily but if i was then who are u to put me down, it like putting down homosexuals which again i dont judge but id never do it.
also my friend is 19 and his mom is 34-5 not sure she had him when she was like 15.
Quote from Vilde0806
Most of the people in this thread are disgusting. There is a reason it is illegal because it has HUGE consent issues. Parents have a huge power over their children and so do siblings. Most victims of incest unwillingly 'consents' because they're scared that their only family will leave or hate them or that there will be conflict and fights within the family. You can't "break up" with your parents, because you will always be family. Especially if you are underage and is dependent on your parents to live. You are also forced to live with your siblings and older siblings very often taek care of and have some authority over younger siblings. Studies on victims of incestual abuse shows this:
"Indications are that incestuous abuse usually does not commonly involve physical force or violence. Verbal or implied threats are more often used by the perpetrator to ensure the child's silence and compliance. The child maybe threatened with family breakup, dissolution of the special relationship with the perpetrator, shame, or blame. The perpetrator may also threaten to commit suicide, harm the victim or other family members, family pets, or valuedpossessions if the incest is revealed or terminated."
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"While neither women who are raped nor incest victims willingly give consent,the child's experience differs because of the adult's authority and importance in his or her life. The perpetrator gains access to the child by betrayingthe child's special trust and by exploiting the child's powerlessness. Thus,incest can be viewed as a form of rape (sexual penetration through the use of force with lack of consent on the part of the victim) within the family, with the added potential for psychological damage to the victim due to the relationship between the child and the adult."
It is illegal because even WITH consent it is almost impossible to know if that person actually wants it because of the HUGE consequences should they say no. In 99% of incest cases(even the ones with consent) the younger person usually felt abused, tramutized, forced into something they didn't want, ashamed and used. This is such an important law and it should never be changed. Ever. Can you even imagine how uncomfortable you would be if your mother or father came into your room at night, touched you and propositioned you? Even if you didn't have sex I'm pretty sure that even the suggestion would freak you out and ruin your relationship with that person.
Couldn't agree more with Vilde0806. Acts of incest is a violation of a social contract between parent and child. The only feeling there should be in this situation is parental love. If you cross the threshold and try to do more you have betrayed the trust of your child.
The morality of this issue shouldn't be up for discussion, but shamful7 so naively sees love as something anyone can share. If what you say is true then that mother needs to be put behind bars. You came head first through that vagina and you want to stick your thing in there? That women is a failure as a mother. nuf said.
As for bothers and sisters its still wrong, I'm just can't honostly think of anything to say.
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), but as for the whole recent discussion about it, I have to agree with J-oker. This whole thing was not only posted on an open forum, but it's also on a open forum that's on the internet. Complaining about people's beliefs on the internet is like trying to throw a dixie cup full of water at an L.A. wildfire and expecting it to douse the flames. Besides, it's highly unlikely that any of you will meet anybody else here in real life, so just accept their opinion (Doesn't mean that you have to agree with it) and move on. And yeah, this thread has seriously digressed from the original topic, but is that really something to complain about when it's been done so many times in other threads on here already? 
