iam tired of everything! my life is boring! when i read manga i feel happy and satisfied to live my dreams in a book.But that is not enough any more,i want a life similiar to a manga (any) because right now i feel suicidal and i have no reason to live. please help me.

go ask your parents for help

Hey dragonil14, I experienced something similiar about two years ago. Where I was tired of life and thought it had no purpose and wanted to live a rich, interesting life like in manga and anime although I never felt suicidal just not scared of dying (if that makes sense). I don't really know what to say to help you, but I just tried to keep busy (i.e finding out what you enjoy doing and submerging yourself in it). I first submerged myself in anime and manga and later on started karate and tennis table at clubs (aswell as keeping a manga addiction )

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Yea I feel tired of my life too. But it's not cuz im bored, but it's cuz of my cycle of stress and procrastination. I think I read manga to escape... Anyways, you have to make the best out of life, even though that might be hard... for the both of us...

So, what are your dreams? Hopefully they're realistic or something you can somehow apply in real life. Uh.. and doesn't include killing ppl...

haha find something interesting outside of manga. or even try to copy the things that you read. even if your reading like fantasy or unrealistic, if theres action, go learn martial arts, if theres love/romance, find a girlfriend or boyfriend.

you really should contact some kind of therapist, someone at school or work that can help maybe? its not as scary as it sounds and it can be a big help, honestly

maybe I should ask, how can we help? Is there something you know we could do for you? If so, please tell us what that is

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get a pet...
it helps me to think i cant leave my dogs alone ,after all im the only thing they have.
i feel the same as you ,everything is pointless..but dunno how yet animal caring helps me alot

I know exactly how you feel/felt
what I did to get over was sucked-it-up and dealt with it.(though it was a painful period in my life)
life is boring in many aspects but that's life, ya gotta live with it
you can't live and wish for a world filled with fantasy, it will get you nowhere. (Ya gotta 'wake up' before it's too late, time waits for no one).
and killing yourself is a pain in the arse for everyone, not be offensive and all, but truthfully it is.
Go find new hobbies and realistic goals, stay away I repeat stay away from manga/animes for a while<-- since it looks like manga/anime is the cause of your emptiness. Even if it's not just stop reading/watching for a few months and occupy your time with something healthy and nice, like sports, hanging out with friends, etc
btw Go to a doctor too(just in case), looks like you have some signs of depression and/or addiction.
I probably sound pretty harsh, but all these things I'm saying you should take in to consideration (and yes, I do know what it felt like going through that phase).
http://addictions.about.com/od/howaddictionhappens/a/symptom slist.htm
http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-symptoms -and-types

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I agree with sweetnsour321 and whiterat. Get a pet. Go out in the world. Spend time with friends, get a hobby, travel!

Also dancing and singing helps too. I feel happy when I dance and sing. (I do this alone because I am terrible at both so that sames my the embaressment)

WTF man...hellooo? He has suicidal ideation and u are supposed to "'HELP"' him and not talk abouth shit&yourself<.<

...and dragonil14 you have 3 real options ...no 4-

1.alcohol drinks(best but short-term op.)
2.therapist or parents-(suitable one)
3.overwork yourself to maximum
4.....drugs(they are helpfull but dangerous try it as last option but its A LOT better than killing yourself-.-,

Best luck! and don`t do what you think u want to do....

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See a shrink.

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LOL, WTF you don't give advise and suggest drugs (unless your talking about anti-depessants in which case, i'm sorry) drugs make things worse, you get a high of about 5 minutes and a low of about 12 hours. Not to mention the amount of money drugs cost. Alcohol isn't as bad, as long as you don't get addicted and drink socially.

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Me too. and @ bostafuu I know what you mean when you say you fall into a cycle of stress + procrastination. I have little to no motivation to do anything - least of all to go to class or work. I am starting to fall behind in a big way and my strategy is to do things one step at a time - 30 minute intervals - until I get out of this mess. I eat food I like, take to bits of anime/manga to ease the stress in between work cycles, and sit under the covers and recluse. I hope to get out of this mess slowly but surely and get back on my way again.

Yes, and you go this site for help.

Find something to replace manga/anime, but less... destructive? Could be something similar to it. Look at other things in the Japanese culture. Maybe aim to go to Japan yourself.

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