Is it weird that I find people who tend to get jealous and possessive highly attractive and desirable? Does anyone else feel like I do?

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I don't think it's weird; that just means they care, right? Of couse you can take it too far, but I think it's only natural get jealous in certain situations.
However, if you're a jealous/possessive person, you shouldn't mind if your partner displays the same behaviour towards you.

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What WandereroftheDeep wrote is basically what I was going to write. I am only interested in relationships amongst mutually obsessive individuals. Our opinions differ in that I don't think it can go too far. Though my ideals would seem strange to most I presume. I believe that it is only desirable to be in a single relationship for one's entire life. Thus I am picky to the extreme, this of course has quickly shut down the advances of all who had some passing interest in my person. My beliefs likely seem far stranger than yours by now so take heart in that I suppose.

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Octopodes If I spoke Greek, but English is the one I speak.

So, you don't think that if your partner doesn't want you to go to work because that would involve talking to members of the opposite sex, that would be taking it too far?


Likewise. I wish more people thought like this.

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it's not weird, it's just a personal taste! and everybody have their own... i prefer someone without all that drama, (save me a lot of troubles) but i do think that you have to show some jealousy (as wanderer said, too lazy to quote, sorry just read his first post) , but in a long term relationship is more bad than good if you're possessive

I suppose I needed to write that I expect reasoning and trust as well, though trust must be earned.
I also wish more people were more selective.

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Octopodes If I spoke Greek, but English is the one I speak.

Uhm, I'm a girl


I couldn't agree more.

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oouuuch!!! so sorry girl! i'm so bad guessing male/female in forums.....
well never mind my bad.. sorry again!


and back to topic i think that when you're jealous is 'cause you're insecure of what make the other person stay with you, that's why i say is just in a long term relationship when you develop some trust and can overcome jealousy

Interesting. I'm very happy to know I'm not the only one out there who likes this.

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Yes! That is kind of really hot, because I feel like it means that he loves you so much he doesn't want any other guy to touch you. Whew, when they get all aggressive like that my brain implodes with the sexy overdrive...

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not wanting someone else to touch you qualifies as being jealous/possessive..you must be quite the open minded girl then : P

idk if it,s so much the sexy overdrive for me, as it is just a warm and fuzzy feeling, but yesh i actually like that too o.o"

i don't have any experience in this and i don't mean to insult anybody but i feel like if you only seek out a partner that is jealous and possessive (both of which, by definition, sound like negative traits) that it means that you are an insecure person. like you constantly want your partner to prove how much they like you by being jealous and possessive.

but you're not weird. there's obviously a lot of people who seek out those types.

In real life, thats not a healthy relationship
Says my religion class....

In yaoi, its necessary! DDD

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the worst thing about this is that
females want to be treated as objects
not only want to but get sexualy attracted to cavemen behaviour

you should feel ashamed
coz you and your like shame all your sex

[this is not something you should share or feel proud of...seriously]

Just keep in mind its usually a sign of insecurity. I say this as someone who deep down is a jealous person. I dont have any good reasons for feeling the way that I do. I'm sure most guys would not appreciate a girl who would feel overjoyed if they ended up losing all of their female friends. Manga and movies likes to glorify it and people like to say jealously is a part of love but usually its a "its not you its me thing." Its a personal issue. Manga and movies and some ppl like to think of it as a romantic thing but its really not. I have suppressed these feelings now & never show them because they NEVER lead to anything good. It's like those guys who say they would want a irl tsundere: LOL no you would not. You think you would want that. No you would not.