Originally this would of appeared in the "Ask the opposite gender" thread, but after thinking about it for a little while I decided I wanted answers from everyone.. I could probably find the answers to these questions else where, but I want the answers as a group..

1. What is your gender? (A common help to this is "Do you pee standing up or sitting down" but personally I don't think it'd help since I know guys who pee sitting and girls who pee standing so... Let's go with what sign is on the door when you go to the public bathroom?)
2. What are you looking for in a relationship? (Short term, a fling, just dating and then see where it will lead, long term, hoping for marriage eventually, etc.. [b]These are just examples, you can say what ever you want. Explain as much or as little as you want, although personally I'd prefer more.)
3. How important is sex in a relationship? (In your opinion and also what you believe for yourself, as sometimes these differ.)
4. Are you a virgin?

There's really no point in my asking all of these things, I'm not writing a paper or anything. Just simple curiosity.
If you would like to know my answers I've included them in a spoiler below. If you're wondering why they're in a spoiler, it's because it's probably more information than some people care to know about me.

You're also free to comment on any of your answers or on anything related that you think I might find interesting...


I left out any other comments because, well.... To be frank I find myself quite boring so in following what I said I have nothing else to say that I think I would find interesting..


Any who.. Thank you everyone who took the time to read this, and I would especially like to thank everyone who took the time to think about it and answer me. I honestly appreciate it.


Last edited by AceBunneh at 8:55 am, Apr 2 2012

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1. Female.
2. If anything, marriage, but no kids; I've recently been reminded of the horrors of childbirth, so no thank you.
3. How well you get along is much more important.
4. Yes.

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1. Male

2. As far as relationships go I don't have any expectations about getting married or having kids. If my partner wants to then I would be up for it but it isn't something I expect of my partner.

3. I believe that the physical relationship is just as important as the emotional one. This doesn't mean I expect sex right off the bat or no deal it just means that if I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with someone I would hope to have a healthy sex life.

4. No I'm not a virgin.

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1. Female

2. Not sure. I haven't been in love before so I kinda want to experience that. But as for what I'm currently looking for, I think I'm more open to a short-term fling than a serious, long-term relationship (I think I have intimacy issues because the thought of being in a long-term, committed relationship kinda scares me). As for the future, I'm open to getting married but I don't feel a great need to get married. I definitely don't want kids.

3. I think sex is very important to a relationship, but not the most important thing. I don't know if I could handle being in a relationship with someone I really care for but the sex is bad. At the same time, I probably couldn't stay in a relationship where the sex was great, but everything else sucked.

4. Yep, I'm a virgin

1. Female
2. I'm currently in a happy relationship and that's also all I want. He's someone who I can have fun with and gives me all the freedom I want. From where I stand know, I don't want to get married and much less having kids
3. Sex is important in a relationship but for me there're things that are much more important.
4. No I'm not a virgin.

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For some reason I find the mangaupdates forums more interesting than the myanimelist forums, anyways:

1. One time when I was at the mall, someone had removed the WO from the WOMEN sign, I was pretty confused for a while there, but anyways, female

2. Kku-what? I'm currently single, and just waiting around for someone I think could be right. I don't really want to waste time with someone because I feel like I'm the type of person who falls in love easy, and I don't want to mess up and choose someone out of convenience sake. But what I'm most afraid of is getting bored of someone and falling out of love. But I would like to get married eventually.

3. If you're experienced, then I don't think it's as important. But for someone inexperienced, then it's really important. But then I get to thinking that I think the first time is important because I've been conditioned to do so. But I'm going to have to agree with some of the previous posters and say that the sexual part is just as important in a relationship as the emotional part. What differentiates a romantic relationship from friendship is the physical element, whether it's sex or just plain making your heart race.

4. As for this, you might be able to guess by my #3

1. What is your gender?
Female.

2. What are you looking for in a relationship?
Well, I never really imagined of sharing a life with someone else until my boyfriend asked me out. All I had dreamed of prior was staying single my whole life, making a living as an artist or musician in New York or somewhere in California, residing in a modern-style apartment with expensive Ethan Allen furniture. And owning two dogs and one cat. Looks like that's not on my agenda anymore, haha.

Back to the question. Love, definitely, and also a life together. Commitment. The plan I have always imagined of a relationship is at least three years of dating, and then marriage. Probably a year or so of settling down, and then kids. Everything will take off from there.

I am currently in the middle of my first relationship. In five days, it will be my boyfriend and I's six month anniversay. This is his third relationship, but his first two were very short. We are both seriously in love, and yes, someday, we will get married. It will happen. Who knows, AceBunneh, I could invite you to my wedding in the future. (; Anyway, this is the first time I have seriously been in love with someone, and it feels amazing. There are certain obstacles that might keep us seperated for longer than I want, but I know in time, these obstacles will no longer be existant.

3. How important is sex in a relationship?
Extremely important. I absolutely do not want to rush it, but at the same time, it may happen before marriage. Until probably the fourth month or so of us dating, I was very set on sex after marriage. However, once I started this relationship, I realized it's not about marriage, just about your relationship with this person you love, how much you love that person, and knowing that having sex is about the right time and moment.

4. Are you a virgin?
Yes.




EDIT.

SCREW RELATIONSHIPS. Lololol.

Love,
Pika.

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1. What is your gender?
Half female half swan.

2. What are you looking for in a relationship?
Comfort. I know it's kind of sad and probably not the best state of mind to be in when entering a relationship, but I need someone I can confide in and be there for me.
Being partly swan and a person of habits, I'm usually in it for the long run.
Even my current, not so short but also not very serious relationship is rooted in the fact that I like having a person, who's more than a friend, to be with.
No kids and marriage isn't something that's important to me.

3. How important is sex in a relationship?
I like sex. It's a fun activity. There's no point in denying it's a big part of any relationship, whether you do it or not. It still plays a role.
I don't think I can be with a person who isn't at all interested in it.

4. Are you a virgin?
No.

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1) Male
2) Companionship, as I am right now, I think a close companion is really needed: someone with whom you can share all your troubles. She (I'm straight) doesn't need to help me; she's there - it's already a massive boost for me.
3) Very sacral, I still want to do it only after marriage, such an old-fashioned person I am.
4) Yes I'm a virgin

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1.What is your gender? Female

2.What are you looking for in a relationship?: A long term term relationship possibly with a view to getting married, I would like kids.

3.How important is sex in a relationship?: It is important, but I would rather wait until after marriage.

4.Are you a virgin? Well, no, but it was not through choice. -_-

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1. Female
2. Fidelity and care. I want to be able to open myself up to the other person, and a general very comforting feeling. In the future, marriage really depends. I'm not easy to get along with, but depends on how much I like the person, it might work out. Maybe one kid, because I'm an only child and I like being one.
3. Fairly important I think. I honestly would not mind it with my (future) boyfriend if our relationship has reached that stage (in trusting and wanting to really love a person), but definitely I don't want to live my life without the experience.
4. Yes

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1. female
2. friendship, cuddle buddy, boyfriend, and the rest is for us to decide. definitely want long term. i don't believe in flings. i can understand short terms, but if possible i'd love to avoid it. thats why i'd like to start off as friends.
3. hmmm that would be a yes, but i agree that it could wait until after marriage. you can tell what type of guy you are with if they agree to wait until after ya get married.
4. lol duh

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• 1 - Male
• 2 - Wild, weird, outside the norm sex. Can't think of any other use I have for a woman right now.
• 3 - Sex and the ability to leave me alone. Can't remember all the women I've left just cause they can't stop bugging me, needing attention, wanting to get married, wanting a new car, wanting to have children, etc., etc.
• 4 - nope.

All that said. I usually don't bother with relationships. Too much hassle. Over the years I've really gotten tired of the whole rigmarole. Easier to just do it myself...