First of....I love...love...love the love triangle manga....it's a guilty pleasure of mine...hehehe. Any way....I am looking for something like 2 guys are so in love with the girl that they just want to just be able to love and protect her and nothing in return. I like the feeling that you are hoping for one guy and can't help but feel bad for the other guy that it wouldn't be bad if she end up with any one of the guys. Did I confuse you?

Example:
hana yori dango .... I wouldn't mind if makino ends up with rui instead of domyoji...since rui is so awesome and he cares for her.
crimson hero .... if nobara ends up with haibuki instead of yushin since they both love her and they both are good guys.
shiawase kissa 3-choume .... if uru choose ichirou over satsuki since ichirou is so good to her.

Thank you in advance for all your answers.

Strobe Edge?

Show Princess I won't spoil the story but I just totally in love with both of the guys <3
Orpheus no Mado I secretly hope it'll turn to be a happy ending with her ended up with at least the second lead guy
Ingenuo the second lead is actually pretty good although at first he's not that great and have a prince tendency
Four Daughters of Armian the second lead guy is too good to be true
Vampire Knight arguably has the most divided supporters for both the guys
Waltz wa Shiroi Dress de unfortunately the girl is just... er... isn't that likable. Both of the guys are hot tho!

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Help! I'm looking for... manga with dangerous guys http://www.mangaupdates.com/showtopic.php?tid=39874&pa ge=1#post594033

I really really do not like this type of romance, so I only have a few...

will be your best shot I guess

Love So Life not much romance yet though... but wholeheartedly in love? I guess not, at least not both...
Taiyou no Ie same as above without the first part
Watashi ni xx Shinasai! this should fit the most of these here

and here those I didn't read yet:
Ryuu no Hanawazurai


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in need of romance?
uncommon, sad, sweet

If you're alright with a little bit of smut, you'll love Moe Kare!!

I can't believe nobody mentioned Honey and Clover.
Not wanting to spoil but you will find plenty of unrequited love in this amazing tale.

I'd recommend mangas but really, you should check the categories first. There's around 700 mangas tagged as unrequited love.

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I also go by amatsu.

Arakure - both the guys were decent, and I'd have been happy with either choice.

Aisuru Hito, smut. Either brother would have been fine with me.

Fruits Basket - I liked the way it turned out, but other people were rooting for the one who bowed out. You could even consider Momiji in this category.

Heroine Shikkaku
Crazy for you
Koiji(literally 10 years of unrequited love)
Sprout
Sumire wa blue
Koi shitagari no blue
Senpai to Kanojo
Lovely complex
Omoi, omaware, furi, furare
Kimi ga Inakya dame tte itte