After playing PSO2 on the jap servers every other mmorpg feels like they're running an outdated combat system =(

I like mmorpgs that feel like action fighting games(that or very intersting/innovative combat systems like Resonance of fate<end of eternity in japanese>) where you're in control of what parts of an enemy your character hits, with no "click to move" or no "click to start auto normal attacking and number keys for skills =( (to me that feels like a combat system from the last century<even though I'm fully aware that such games havent even been around for 20 years, still that's a really long time>) and no gender locking characters or classes, i really hate that =( (why cant men be archers goddammit!?!)

Oh and i also love Jrpgs in general, and chibi like games(I eventually got pissed off enough to permanently quit mabinogi and maplestory over the years)

I played vindictus, back in closed beta, and again last year, I liked it, but it got very very boring, plus I've had it with nexon over the years(but who hasn't ;D )
So yeah I'm looking for a PC MMO, though I'd be willing to try a platform one if it's interesting enough.