ok, sorry I'm asking for a movie, but I asked on a movie site an no one knew it. so...

it was an older movie, 80's, or 90's maybe, there was a young couple, the girl became pregnant. their parents weren't pleased, so they ran off. they were living in a flat New York style. I think it might be New York. But I'm actually not sure if the movie was American. there was a scene when he joined her in the shower and she was embarrassed, he told that's stupid, because they sleep together and made her look at his junk. she says it's cute, and he roars it shouldn't be cute, it should be (macho words for junk, i don't know, awesome, or so. I watched it dubbed in my language). It was a funny scene. when the girl delivers the baby, she has this disorder when she hates the baby, doesn't want to touch it. then the boy's father comes through the window in the night (the boy is working). the girl gets scared for the baby, takes it in the arms (she thinks it's a burglar or something). and then they talk with the grandpa and everything is fine again. happy end.

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if there is an option between "to do" and "not to do", I will always choose the latter.

"what kind of crazy, twisted conclusion is that...?" - banana bread no puding

Pretty sure that's "For Keeps" starring Molly Ringwald.

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"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
-James Nicoll, can.general, March 21, 1992

thank you, thank you, thank you. that's it!

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if there is an option between "to do" and "not to do", I will always choose the latter.

"what kind of crazy, twisted conclusion is that...?" - banana bread no puding