so i rememeber reading this one yaoi a while ago so if the explaination is all over the place, sorry.

i remember the uke having this "power" (i guess) that if someone were to look into his eyes they would fall in love with him and he was troubled by it i think
And the seme had the same problem but i think it worked on girls for him as well as guys too but im not sure about that one. And i think when the seme met the uke, the uke was surprised ythat he didnt fall in love with him and they got together in yhe end
it was a lot like Caramel Honey but like completed and the seme was like the desription i gave but all help is much appreciated

Isn't it "Crazy for You" by Araya Miki? https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=3118
The description of that manga says:
"Takami has an 'eye power' that causes guys to fall in love with him by looking them in the eye and Ninomiya has a 'pheromone power' that gets both men and women fall in love with him. What happens when these two characters clash together?"

thats it! thanks so much