I don't see anything wrong when people choose to engage in casual sex...

Personally I never did ( I had my first kiss at 20 ) and knowing myself, it's kinda hard to imagine I ever will...



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i am ok with the thought of casual sex.. but when it comes to doing it i think i wouldn't... i would prefer to find a bf for only sex

I personally think sex should be between couples in love....., but I'm ok with people having casual sex.

I personally don't intend to have 'casual sex', but I don't begrudge those who do. I would rather wait until I'm in a steady relationship before I do anything like that, or maybe until I'm married.

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I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?

210 days until I'm legal, Indy!

ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.

so you would have casual sex while you are married? doesn't it sound kinda like cheating?

Aneste, you know very well I meant I might wait until I was married before I had sex with my spouse.

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I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?

210 days until I'm legal, Indy!

ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.

yep yep i know^^ just wanted to tease you a little sorry for that

So, how long would you date a guy before sleeping with him, Aneste?

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I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?

210 days until I'm legal, Indy!

ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.

counterattack? depends on the guy.. it can be one month, one year or one week dont know

Lol.
I disapprove of Casual Sex.
It should always be Intense Sex.






On the serious note, I don't have a problem with Casual Sex. If a woman is cool with it, I don't see why a guy wouldn't be.
Unless said guy is a emotional man-woman, or a virgin... I can understand why you'd disapprove.

But there are cases where girls get around. Simply avoid the girl like the plague due to the fact that there is a high percent chance that she has the plague. Just stay apprehensive and you avoid situation entirely.

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don't worry I agree with you! yeah, it might actually sound old-fashioned, but oh well.

If by casual sex you mean 1 night stands I don't think it's bad, if casual sex you mean "friends with benefits" you always have to be carefull what you get into, you could loose more then just your benifits.

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On two occasions, first one I think I kind of got overwhelmed by a really dirty (in the good way) girl who wouldn't take no for an answer. She was older than me and I was kind of forced into it, or rather I didn't voice my opinion about it at all. But it was pretty fun regardless (being the first times and so) This I don't really regret now, but I did at the time (she had a boyfriend and he knew about it and it was a guy I really liked)

Second, Out dancing, much alchohol, bad judgement. The day afterwards, while seeing a stranger next to me I just felt really really disgusted with myself and promised myself to never get into a situation like that again. Though I have a problem with myself being casual about sex I don't really have it regarding others.

I too go for the true love thing, you know the kind of feeling that this is the one you're going to spend the rest of your life with. I date often enough but I seldom sleep with the ones I date, I need to be very sure. Ones morals can make you pretty weird if you let them go overboard. sigh...

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They'd climb a mountain, find a tree, carve a hole in it, whisper the secret into the hole and cover it up with mud. That way, nobody else would ever learn the secret...

Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.

I'm the same here, casual sex is something i find disgusting and if i find a girl and she says she has a sexfriend or had before, it's one of the few thing that will decide me to not have a relationship with her.

But it's always possible to be attracted to someone and the day after find him disgusting or anything and stop the relationship just at the first night, but it must never be "sex for fun".

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