agreed. although male sluts are getting on my nerves more. I don't know the exact reason tho.

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Men have been having sex "out in the open" longer than women have...
It wasn't long ago, that showing an ankle was considered obscene.
Showing some more was the sign of prostitutes.

I guess people will get used to the fact that women like sex too (and do it).
Eventually...

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...exactly. I think you've summed up my point.

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I hate them both.

I don't mind. Have sex all you want, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone :3

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Personally, I think that it shouldn't matter to people how many times someone has sex, even if they personally know that person.

But I think that this all goes back to people trying to hang onto the standards and morals of the 1900's-1950's.

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It is like Caliber sayd, we see it a lot in here... the player is a hero and the slut is the vilain... in my mind they are equally bad, maybe the player is worse since he thinks he can get away with it... and the place where I live is full of them...

I wouldn't mind them as long as my friends do not get hurt because of them

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human culture has been "ruled" by males for thousands of years, women started standing on equal grounds for what, 30 years? obviously women still get the worst part of the deal, but it should end up changing with time

Agree.
I called sluts or whores.
Players is for sports!!! LOL

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I think it is more of the fact of the peers. In my experience, guys are called players because (most) guys will cheer him on. Since, unfortunately, a lot of guys have that mentality. While with girls, the majority do not look well on it, as in other women do not think its ok, and therefore get a negative connotation.

However, this refers to the majority, as you will always meet people of the minority, girls that think its fine, and guys that think it isn't. So, these terms come from the peers of their own gender. Since most women will think the term Player should be negative, and most men do not really care if the woman if a slut, some even thinking its a good thing.

So to sum what I am saying, our own peers in society give these terms their connotations.

I only went back 1 page in your old posts because I was trying to figure out which way you "swing", but I couldn't a direct answer. So I'm just asking here, are you a lesbian, Hermit-chan? Because then I can understand what you meant for that comment. (And a lesbian that had to make the situation in a relationship more difficult, too? )


Wow, that's some really liberal thinking. Does the same rules applies to all your future partners?


"Most men"? I'm not pretending to speak for the males of society (especially since I'm not male), but something tells me that they wouldn't want the woman that they are married to or are dating to be a "slut". They probably would have been okay sleeping with them or just having other fun, but really, as much as this saying is insulting (especially with another insulting joke which refers and makes similarities between women and cows), "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" would apply.

And Player should be negative, but it's more okay for guys to be "scoring" than girls to be, so it was easier for the label to be put into a positive spin. (I didn't read the whole thread though.)

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"Most men"? I'm not pretending to speak for the males of society (especially since I'm not male), but something tells me that they wouldn't want the woman that they are married to or are dating to be a "slut". They probably would have been okay sleeping with them or just having other fun, but really, as much as this saying is insulting (especially with another insulting joke which refers and makes similarities between women and cows), "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" would apply.

And Player should be negative, but it's more okay for guys to be "scoring" than girls to be, so it was easier for the label to be put into a positive spin. (I didn't read the whole thread though.)[/quote]


I should have said specified more to the single crowd. Since people should cease such behavior once in a marriage (although this is not always the case) the references would be past tense. Non the less still infuriating. And what I meant by a 'good' thing, is the guys that think being a Player is a good thing, would not think being a slut is a bad thing in that they could score with them easier. However, in my opinion the whole thing is kinda wrong, but I am not gonna lecture anyone about it. It is there lives, and as long as they aren't hurting anyone I have no reason to lecture anyone.

lol wat if I say yessu?

The slut that I was refering to was my neighbour..(her mom's a PIMP btw >__> ) she's basically a high school drop out and whoring herself around. I hate her cuz she seems so innocent up front.

I LIKED HER so asked my mom hire her to work in my mom's restaurant.. ( i was working part time there when I was still applying for university..and this all happened 2 yrs ago..)

i later found out that she's wearing a poker face and suddenly quits her job AFTER some of the married military guys were asking me where the hell she was after going out with them.. then i realised that i was The Victim here..


it may sounds so 'bizzare'...and z0mgLIES! but it's a true story...sadly
(the last what I herd from that bitch is that she just 'got herself' (probably whore herself) a new job, haircut and a CAR. WTF.

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I don't get it completely. I can't see just how much she was using you (and maybe the other guys, and were they two-timing their wives... ). Maybe you're being vague on the details or situation because it's painful though?

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