Quote from grandexeno
Quote from Mamsmilk
I think you should tell him how you feel.
Walking away from the situation might end
that arguement, but it will not change your
father's behaviour, since he'll feel that he has won.
If he won't listen, write it on paper.
If your father is an adult, his conscience
should be alarming when his children are
afraid of him.
Walking away from the situation might end
that arguement, but it will not change your
father's behaviour, since he'll feel that he has won.
If he won't listen, write it on paper.
If your father is an adult, his conscience
should be alarming when his children are
afraid of him.
Mams, this is what you should do with REASONABLE people, not with someone who behaves as she said. I dont think he cares much how others feel about him, he wants to overpower people by winning debates and discussions, raising his voice, never listening to anyone.
Besides, in most households (well maybe more in asiatic ones?), being feared by own children = more respect/obedience, not much else to ponder about.
I do believe there is still a human inside him,
so it should not be impossible to make him
reasonable. If not, then professional help is needed
for him to see what he is and what he is doing wrong.
People that crave some sort of superiority have usually
been traumatised by something in their life.