A date!
16 years ago
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so ever since i've entered College I've been determined to talk to as many females as possible, get as many dates as possible an one of my overall goals is to find a nice girl that i can call mine.
anyways
i've done as planned and have been talking to many females and have been going on dates on average about one per week
anyways i have another date this weekend
she asked where do i want to go?
so i'm here on the internet searching for simple date ideas
so any suggestions lol
where do we go for a simple date?
its gonna be about sometime in the morning or evening btw
why because i am the president of the student council of course
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first meeting?
Could always go to have breakfast or lunch, that way if you don't get along well you can leave after paying the bill. And if you hit it off you can go other places (i.e. a park or something). The choice of breakfast and lunch over dinner is two fold, more time to do other things after if you get along, and a smaller bill to pay if you don't. Just don't go anywhere fancy.
16 years ago
Posts: 272
in the evening go and grab something to eat and then go and drink a bit.perhaps not too much....otherwise the might think you are a drunkard or want to make her drunk for some funny ecchi stuff....
afterwards go for a walk and talk or sth. like that.
I wouldn't recommend going to a loud place where you can't talk if it's your first date with her.....I suppose you know why if you do so often...
quite basic I know,but it works just fine 😀
in en morning go and drink a cup of coffee or tee and eat breakfast like told by kaerfehteelb.going to a park is also a good idea.
otherwise I have no idea what you could do on a morning in japan...
16 years ago
Posts: 367
Tokyo_homi somehow we seem to have similar aspirations in University Life. lol 😁
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16 years ago
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Quote from kaerfehtdeelb
first meeting?
Could always go to have breakfast or lunch, that way if you don't get along well you can leave after paying the bill. And if you hit it off you can go other places (i.e. a park or something). The choice of breakfast and lunch over dinner is two fold, more time to do other things after if you get along, and a smaller bill to pay if you don't. Just don't go anywhere fancy.
so i took your advice
it seemd perfect
since we actually new eachother in HS, i told her we could grab something to eat and than take a walk and catch up with eachother.
thannnnnnnnnkkks for the tip 🙂
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Tokyo_homi somehow we seem to have similar aspirations in University Life. lol 😁
hahahaha great minds think alike!!!
why because i am the president of the student council of course
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16 years ago
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How 'bout a walk in the park? Coffee together somewhere? Some small event that's going on?
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16 years ago
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Quote from muraved
How 'bout a walk in the park? Coffee together somewhere? Some small event that's going on?
very close
out final decision was to get starbucks at a book store than just take a walk around 🙂
can't wait im stoked!
why because i am the president of the student council of course
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16 years ago
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I think that totally depends on the girl you're going out with. You should try to read her personality and the mood before deciding what to do.
Of course, if you're bad with coming up with ideas, it's good to plan ahead, but don't make any permanent plans before you see how you and the girl you're going out with is feeling like, what kind of clothes is she wearing, what kind of weather it is etc.
Most often the best dates are those when you go with the situation. I think, that's the surest way to success. As long as you can come up with an idea at the moment or have some different ideas ready — as long as you don't just freeze 'cause you don't have any ideas at all.
Be creative, do something unusual, or just something simple (simple doesn't equal to plain and boring). And never force things. You don't need to do something else just because you think your date hasn't been eventful enough if you both enjoy it.
I know this isn't exactly what you asked, but I think it's more important to have the right attitude and be adaptive and creative instead of have good plans.
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