firstly, I know that no rape is acceptable, but I want yaoi, where there is one, what is not so rapish. let mi explain. some of my examples don't even have rape as a category.

like in koisuru boukun, let's say the first time. He was under the afrodisiacum, he felt obviously good. the afrodisiacum didn't give him the seme, so it was his own fault.

it can also be the uke who is raping. for example I think that if you take advantage of a drunk person (or make him drunk yourself) is somehow considered rape. future lovers.

or, and this one is good. uke forcing the seme into raping the uke. well.... I would say second story of ai subeki fujitsu can be counted. or Darenimo Ai Sarenai

or akanai tobira - uke actually really enjoying it.

or the uke taking advantage of his status (like being ones boss or something like that). the first story in bannin is good. It can't really be the seme, that would be more rape. but the uke raping seme with strenght isn't good.

or Renai Kyoutei Nukegake Nashi! - this is not really rape, but it's discutable. well, let's say I did see the rape in it.

there might be many more situations like this. I hope you get me a bit. thanks

It can actually be any rape manga, where you enjoyed the rape. if you of course don't enjoy them all. I just want some violent sex, but I don't like rape.....

if there is an option between "to do" and "not to do", I will always choose the latter.

"what kind of crazy, twisted conclusion is that...?" - banana bread no puding

try Giglio tho i'm not sure if it's what you are looking for