Hello everybody, this is my first time writing something like this. Well here is the situation, I have a girlfriend that I've been seeing for about 6 months. I don't think this relationship is going anywhere, but I don't want to end it either. So any advice that can help me and I'll do have something in mind but I would like to hear others opinions.

First of all stop being such a lame guy who asks for this kind of advice on a manga forum. Other than that, well, it depends on what your so called girlfriend is like.

Bake her an apple pie or a blueberry pie. Take her to a music performance, theatre, nouveau cirque. Go dance with her. If you can't dance and she can't dance go take some dancing lessons together: learn to tango. You could even take some courses with her aside from dancing, start a hobby with her: take a pottery class; instead of going to watch a play join an amateur theatre group or take some acting lessons with her. Steal a ketch or a yawl off the harbor and take her to southern seas. Be creative.

Far-off places with sweet sounding names.

You get together with someone when that person caughts your heart or virce versa. Atleast that's how it is for me but..

Small things can get a girl happy :3

Tell her how pretty she is, wonderful person she is (Only if you mean it ofc).
Go for a walk with her, talk, cook, bake, if she has any hobbies then 'sacrifice' yourself for her so you somthing that she thinks funny even if you hate it :>

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give her food 😀

Sounds like you're not completely confident in your relationship. But it's not a question of what she wants, but what you need to feel more confident. What do you really wish for in this relationship? What would help you feel better? Go find that out and then tell her honestly about it. Maybe together you will find some things to enrich your relationship?

I hope it will work out for you two!

It's the little things you do.

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I suppose winning a girl heart would necessitate entering into some sort of female organ lottery. Maybe you'll get lucky and win a heart.

Aside from that, in all seriousness, here be what little advice I can offer. First sit down and look at your relationship thus far. You say it's going nowhere, so does it seem like SHE'S doing anything to help it go anywhere? If not, then apparently neither of you are as of yet. If that's so, do something. Someone here suggested taking up a shared hobby. That's not bad. If she IS doing something, put on your man parts and work with her.

Also, talk to her. Ask her where she thinks the relationship is going. Did you know that communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship? I know, it's amazing.

If she also thinks that you two aren't going anywhere, maybe it would be time to call it quits. There's no point in forcing a relationship that isn't working, for either of you.

Of course, when you talk you might find out that both of you WANT the relationship to progress, and it turns out that the two of you were just a retardedly happy idiot couple all along.

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everyone's posted great advice so far, even though it seemed cynical "狂気"'s comment made a lot of sense too

i'd just like to add don't keep buying things and pampering her if it seems like she's just into you for the things you can do for her 🤢

everything(-one) has its price 😀

Be Mysterious infront of her, then show some love~~~!! Always works. ;D

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As long as you don't do things like assign all your classes to be the same as hers, everything should be fine. I highly dislike when someone assigns all their classes as my classes as someone recently has. He is a friend, and that is it. If he were a boyfriend, I wouldn't like it either.

A girl needs space sometimes. C8 Space, a nice chat here and there, but drop the conversation if she's not interested. And just be nice, no need to be dark and mysterious.

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