@Shade449: lol I meant faking being shy.

@base_coat: I think you're maybe taking the metaphor farther than was intended.

EDIT: Also, first post on page 100.

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@Shade449: lol I meant faking being shy.

@base_coat: I think you're maybe taking the metaphor farther than was intended.

EDIT: Also, first post on page 100.

Now I feel dumb 😛

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MasterofMagic' question: A shovel to the face. I'm that dense.

🤣 Same here. I hate guys who insist that I'm a 'fronter' because I can't take hints. If you're going to be wasting your time hinting around might as well go for a direct attack. But to each their own.

Since girls are considered 'fronters' what's the term for guys who act the same? I've heard there's a different name for it.

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@Shade449: lol I meant faking being shy.

@base_coat: I think you're maybe taking the metaphor farther than was intended.

EDIT: Also, first post on page 100.

Yeah, I know. But it's still a bit shocking (though not surprising) to me that he came up with *that kind of *metaphor even if he truly didn't have any bad intention.

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MasterofMagic' question: A shovel to the face. I'm that dense.

🤣 Same here. I hate guys who insist that I'm a 'fronter' because I can't take hints. If you're going to be wasting your time hinting around might as well go for a direct attack. But to each their own.

Since girls are considered 'fronters' what's the term for guys who act the same? I've heard there's a different name for it.

What's a fronter? I don't think I've ever heard the term before.

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Finally something I really should have mentioned. I'd rather have a new station wagon than an old and used sports car. 🤣

This comparison of girls to cars is dehumanizing and disrespecting to me.

Why is that so wrong people like comparisons to better understand something. I wouldn't care, why should you be offended when it was not intended to hurt you at all? Plus the obvious laughing emote means I wasn't serious about it.

      😔         I believe people should be evaluated in individual terms and based on many aspects of theirs. You would probably consider a girl who has had lots of anal sex and oral sex with many partners but no vaginal penetration to be "purer" than one who has had 1 or 2 serious relationships with constant vaginal sex when both don't talk much about their previous experience (they have the right not to). Isn't that a bit sad? IMO, none of them is purer than the other one or less pure than one without any sexual experience. People are humans, not objects. 

Not really if someone had one or two partners and they went at like jack rabbits every day, I'd be totally fine. It when they number guys she ahd sexual relationships with get more in the teens I worry (I'm a younger fella so the number may be a tad low for you).

As to the tightness issue, I'd say it really depends on the person not on their experience when they are still young.

It does depend on their biological make up of course. But I think the feeling is different with how many times you'd had sex. That why it hurts your first time.

When you are able to tell the slight difference of who's tighter, would you consider yourself a used sports car? And did you know there are girls who don't want "used sports cars"?

Wow you think I'm such a hypocrite? I had sex with four different women thats it. I know there are women who don't liek guys who have sex with tins of people and you know what? I support 'em, I aint no chauvinistic man.

Did you think your theory about purity could be derived from some unspoken social influence rather than pure truth? That's the reason why some men become psychological about sex the way they are.

My purity was virginity in any shape or form. Also maybe purity was the wrong word but I couldn't think of anything better at that point.

@shade449: At first, reading your post my face looked like this --> 😕 and then my face went --> 🤣
I re-read my post and I wasn't exactly clear, so whatever.

New question for ladies:

What's the best (or just a good) Icebreaker in your opinion? How should a guy approach you if you've never met?

Again, possible repeat, but my "Care" meter is bottoming out.

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MasterofMagic' question: A shovel to the face. I'm that dense.

🤣    Same here. I hate guys who insist that I'm a 'fronter' because I can't take hints. If you're going to be wasting your time hinting around might as well go for a direct attack. But to each their own.

Since girls are considered 'fronters' what's the term for guys who act the same? I've heard there's a different name for it.

What's a fronter? I don't think I've ever heard the term before.

It's hard to explain. But it's basically someone (mainly girls) who puts on a false personality or is ignorant of any, if not all type of flirting.

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Not really if someone had one or two partners and they went at like jack rabbits every day, I'd be totally fine. It when they number guys she ahd sexual relationships with get more in the teens I worry (I'm a younger fella so the number may be a tad low for you).

That's why your comparison was dehumanizing and misleading. One or two partner but went like jack rabbits every day would still make a "used sports car", because it makes no difference when cars are used by the same person over and over again or by many different persons. 😉 Also "purity" always has the undertone of being "better". That's why calling people pure or not pure just based on some simple things is disrespecting to me and you also know it's not a correct word.

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Not really if someone had one or two partners and they went at like jack rabbits every day, I'd be totally fine. It when they number guys she ahd sexual relationships with get more in the teens I worry (I'm a younger fella so the number may be a tad low for you).

That's why your comparison was dehumanizing and misleading. One or two partner but went like jack rabbits every day would still make a "used sports car", because it makes no difference when cars are used by the same person over and over again or by many different persons. 😉 Also "purity" always has the undertone of being "better". That's why calling people pure or not pure just based on some simple things is disrespecting to me and you also know it's not a correct word.

Purity has traditionally been associated with virginity and lack of sexual experience so I'm not sure you can conclude that he was being disrespectful or wrong from just that word. Now, you may have a point that it shouldn't be used that way but you can't really blame someone for using a word in the way that it is traditionally used.

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Purity has traditionally been associated with virginity and lack of sexual experience so I'm not sure you can conclude that he was being disrespectful or wrong from just that word. Now, you may have a point that it shouldn't be used that way but you can't really blame someone for using a word in the way that it is traditionally used.

That can be a complicated issue - we don't need to go there. I am not blaming anyone. I think that words may have lost their meanings today. Even virginity is a subjective word. In the past, people would think a person who had done all the smutty things (when the actions were not known by people lol) except penetration a virgin. It's probably not the case to many people today. The reason is probably that people didn't talk and were not open about sexuality. I doubt actual purity really existed as smutty things did happen but people refused to admit their existence. That's why purity also carried a hypocrite undertone. Lack of sexual experience was thought of being "pure" because seeking sexual pleasure was considered wrong or sin. The intention of masturbation by nature is no difference from seeking pleasure with other people. It can also be counted as sexual experience. It can be quite pointless and contradicting itself when the traditional meaning was formed.

And the psychological issue brought up by KennEH also made me think of something like in the old times, brothel clients buying a girl's "virginity" and thinking that they would gain "something" even if the girl probably had performed a lot of other things except vaginal sex. 🤣 They might have or have not known but they just didn't care! Also they could be lied to by the brothel owner and still thought they would gain something after having sex with a so-called virgin.

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What's the best (or just a good) Icebreaker in your opinion? How should a guy approach you if you've never met?

order me a drink?

or make a joke though if it is too lame it may not work.

or especially for me, say something that really bothers and then see me talking non-stop. 🤣 usually when i realize that i talk nonstop, i stop and laugh so.. it is a nice icebreaker.

though my fav is drinks. free drinks are always welcome. 🤣

I prefer a hot guy coming and asking me to buy him a drink. 😉

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That's why your comparison was dehumanizing and misleading. One or two partner but went like jack rabbits every day would still make a "used sports car", because it makes no difference when cars are used by the same person over and over again or by many different persons. 😉 Also "purity" always has the undertone of being "better". That's why calling people pure or not pure just based on some simple things is disrespecting to me and you also know it's not a correct word.

I do agree my comparison sucks. Didn't convey all my points.

I did already say that I may have used the wrong word though. Just couldn't think of a better one at the time.

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Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...

1- Why do guys insist that they are looking for a serious relationship, something new, a girl who is willing to commit...but then when you give them a chance the next day or so, they are with someone else who is nothing like what they say they are and appear to be the easiest girl around? Um like wtf? Are we suppose to take you seriously when you make such a huge leap >:-(

This question has been annoying me for a while now. First of all, this lacks context. Was this guy saying these things in idle conversation, or was he asking you out? If the first is the case, then you're probably misinterpreting. Basically, the guy never said he was looking for a girl who was serious and is less interested in sleeping with him. He said he was looking for a relationship. That probably means that he's grown tired of trying to meet girls at clubs, bars, parties, etc and seal the deal, and instead would like to maintain a relationship with a girl he could sleep with regularly by just giving her regular attention. You probably misinterpreted this to mean a relationship with a girl he could settle down with, raise a family with, bring home to mother. In fact, having a relationship says very little about the girl in question.

The other possibility is that he was trying to ask you out, saying he was looking for a serious relationship to convince you that you should take a risk on him, and then you, looking at his track record, rejected him. After this, he links up with a slut. You say he should have continued looking for a serious girl, and then you'd consider giving him a chance? What the heck is that? Does dating work on a credit limit? You date a certain type of girl long enough and then you can upgrade your "credit limit" for a better girl? Well, for now, I'll just say I hope not.

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