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ok weird question but its been bugging me lol

How do girls feel if their boyfriend masturbates...
do they get offended, disgusted, or do they really just don't care

sorry if this was asked already...i didnt feel like reading 101 pages of Q and A

Why would I care?
He has the right for self pleasure.

It's also good for a guy to have that skill. A girl might have a "headache" or something. 🙂

I say- Jerk off as much as you like, just don't stain anything.

Or did you mean in front of the gf?

no i meant with her not around lol

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

When I die, I want to go peacefully like my Grandfather did, in his sleep -- not screaming, like the passengers in his car.

It'd be weird if he didn't masturbate 🤣
It's a natural thing nothing to get offended by. I honestly don't mind.

I'm not sure but I think some girls would find it offending if their boyfriend is masturbating from another girls' picture or the thought of another girl. And I don't mean from magazine's because a lot of guys do it, more like from girls they associate with on a daily basis.

It's complicated I'm not sure how to really explain it...

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What is the worst place you have ever had sex at? for guys or girls

@berzer: Why be upset or offended at a guy masturbating? I agree with Luna that if you're going out with a girl, you don't let her know if you are thinking about someone else (which you shouldn't be, but we know it happens...). If you do it "right," it can be something of a turn-on, and/or foreplay.

@ironskintribe: the beach. (sand = BAD)

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

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@berzer: Why be upset or offended at a guy masturbating? I agree with Luna that if you're going out with a girl, you don't let her know if you are thinking about someone else (which you shouldn't be, but we know it happens...). If you do it "right," it can be something of a turn-on, and/or foreplay.

@ironskintribe: the beach. (sand = BAD)

I have heard that before, along with one of those rocking porch swings because it is really hard to keep your balance

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I have heard that before, along with one of those rocking porch swings because it is really hard to keep your balance

Not to mention the possibility of splinters.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

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ok weird question but its been bugging me lol

How do girls feel if their boyfriend masturbates...
do they get offended, disgusted, or do they really just don't care

sorry if this was asked already...i didnt feel like reading 101 pages of Q and A

and my answer is how do boys feel if their girlfriend masturbates?

well it is normal and why would i care.

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ok weird question but its been bugging me lol

How do girls feel if their boyfriend masturbates...
do they get offended, disgusted, or do they really just don't care

sorry if this was asked already...i didnt feel like reading 101 pages of Q and A

and my answer is how do boys feel if their girlfriend masturbates?

well it is normal and why would i care.

I'd think it was a waste.

Or I'd be turned on.

.... or I'd be normal and wouldn't care 😳

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ok weird question but its been bugging me lol

How do girls feel if their boyfriend masturbates...
do they get offended, disgusted, or do they really just don't care

sorry if this was asked already...i didnt feel like reading 101 pages of Q and A

I don't care at all. Actually I wanted to watch my ex-boyfriend masturbating (thinking it would be hot) but he just wouldn't do it (that was definitely NOT the reason we broke up). And that was before I got into yaoi and had seen that in it. 😉

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ok weird question but its been bugging me lol

How do girls feel if their boyfriend masturbates...
do they get offended, disgusted, or do they really just don't care

sorry if this was asked already...i didnt feel like reading 101 pages of Q and A

I don't care at all. Actually I wanted to watch my ex-boyfriend masturbating (thinking it would be hot) but he just wouldn't do it (that was definitely NOT the reason we broke up). And that was before I got into yaoi and had seen that in it. 😉

Oh man me too but I was just curious. But I don't know he was shy I guess, and our conversation turned so awkward.
me: I want to see it!
him: ....why?!
me:...looks like fun
him:...it is...when I'm alone
me: how boring...
him: let me see you do it
me: 😲 fine first you
him: I will when I see you having fun first.
me: not happening! guess we both won't be having fun today...
him.....I will when I get home...
🤣
It just turned awkward after that...guess some guys like privacy.

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Mine was like:

(Right after sex and we were lovey-dovey) Me: How often do you masturbate?
Him (looking very shy and reluctant): Hmm...It depends if I had sex...At least once a day.
Me: Where do you do it? In the shower? 😉
Him: At home...not in the shower.
Me (with pervy grin): What do you think of when you masturbate?
Him (still looking shy, with a tender voice): Nothing... What do you think of when you masturbate?
Me: You. 😉

He looked a bit surprised and very cute.

Me: How do you clean up? Show me (still with a pervy smile. Not sure whether he thought my smile was pervy though).
Him (a bit upset but still looking cute): Why do you want to know how I clean up?
Me: Come on. Show me
Him: No.

There was nothing awkward though. He allowed me to play with his d**k freely as usual. He just wouldn't do it himself. Still think the conversation was cute today. 🙂

Yours does sound really cute! I think mines was just awkward because I came off so demanding 🤣

But now I'm glad it didn't happen it might have led to something else...who knows.

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Yours does sound really cute! I think mines was just awkward because I came off so demanding 🤣

But now I'm glad it didn't happen it might have led to something else...who knows.

I mean you offered him a fair trade, not that demanding. I can still see it being a little awkward though. I am pretty sure it would have led to something else though yes.

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ok weird question but its been bugging me lol

How do girls feel if their boyfriend masturbates...
do they get offended, disgusted, or do they really just don't care

sorry if this was asked already...i didnt feel like reading 101 pages of Q and A

It can be awesome foreplay. 😃
So no, it definitely doesn't bother me nor do I feel disgusted. I actually enjoy watching.

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

🤣

So many pervz.