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i am a girl.

and most of the boys i have met are ready for the action.

Boys are always ready for "the action".
If anyone tells you differently:
a) he is lying
b) trying reverse psychology

Don't be fooled. We are quite goal-oriented.

or-
c) He's just not interested.

Winner.

Besides, there isnt any problem with "wanting to do it" if its not a real obsession (like looking at the time every 5 mins during a dinner, lets say)
Its just Males are, in average, more honest than Females with this thing.

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I need a die with 2 sides.

That's known as a "coin".

Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.

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Its just Males are, in average, more honest than Females with this thing.

it's hard not to be a product of your own society.

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Do guys like girls with more, or with less sexual experience then them? same applies for relationship experience.

Less sexual experience for me...but then again I've never been in a relationship OTL;;;
That's what I'd like though. IMO if the girl has had sex before, then the relationship could be just her looking for sex and not a comitting relationship >_>

-Do guys really have a fetish for like example: maid, nurse, school girl costumes? I know they do, but around what age are guys really into that stuff?

Maids, Nurses, Teachers, School girls...
My fetishes aren't limited to just that though.
You get into fetishes at different ages, depending on your exposure to it, but I have my money on puberty 😛

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i am a girl.

and most of the boys i have met are ready for the action.

Boys are always ready for "the action".
If anyone tells you differently:
a) he is lying
b) trying reverse psychology

Don't be fooled. We are quite goal-oriented.

or-
c) He's just not interested.

+1

Some guys have standards...

But yeah, I'd think it'd be more awkward to talk about having sex than actually doing it. I'm part of the AVC though, so take my words with a grain of salt.

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Yea I do. It is hard for a guy to fight with himself. I often times have an inner conflict over whats right and wrong. Finding out if I like someone and other such perplexities. How can a man know if he likes someone if he is influenced by hormones in his decisions. Answer that question and I will consider you far wiser than most people I have known in life.

😀

Well the hormones are the reason every time you see a hot girl, you get interested in her, is not like we can avoid this... unless you go the other way... in with case the same applies... but with guys <_<... anyway the only thing you can do is talk with the girl to see beyon what the hormones make you see.

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Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

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Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

Always personality. Looks last only so long. They can be there one day and gone the next.
I know from personal experience. 😃

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

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Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

it is lame but personality.

looks are only for 1 day fun.

Taz, that is an old question from the thread as well, but yeah the answers were the same as ane and jinx gave this time.

Though I know ane would like to have a lot of fun with a cute guy 😀

Looks will always play a certain part in the equation, so to say that it's not a factor would be inaccurate. Deep down, most people do judge based on looks, at least initially.

That's one of the wonderful things about the internet. You get to know the person before you are prejudiced by how they appear. (This can be a blessing and a curse, though.)

However, looks aren't what holds a relationship together. It's a meshing of personalities.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

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Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

Always personality. Looks last only so long. They can be there one day and gone the next.
I know from personal experience. 😃

So true, so true.
Looks may be the first thing some people pick up on, but after some time no matter how great he looks there just has to be something deeper to make a meaningful relationship. As they say, looks fade with time, but personality more or less remains steady.

That's my two cents on it, anyway.
Feel like I've answered this question already...

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Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

Always personality. Looks last only so long. They can be there one day and gone the next.
I know from personal experience. 😃

So true, so true.
Looks may be the first thing some people pick up on, but after some time no matter how great he looks there just has to be something deeper to make a meaningful relationship. As they say, looks fade with time, but personality more or less remains steady.

That's my two cents on it, anyway.
Feel like I've answered this question already...

So all of you would prefer a boyfriend who was ugly but had a nice personality over a good looking one with a bad personality?
Really?

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[quote=tazman0208]Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

Always personality. Looks last only so long. They can be there one day and gone the next.
I know from personal experience. 😃

So true, so true.
Looks may be the first thing some people pick up on, but after some time no matter how great he looks there just has to be something deeper to make a meaningful relationship. As they say, looks fade with time, but personality more or less remains steady.

That's my two cents on it, anyway.
Feel like I've answered this question already...

So all of you would prefer a boyfriend who was ugly but had a nice personality over a good looking one with a bad personality?
Really?[/quote]
For me, I become more attracted to someone with an awesome personality than I do with someone who doesn't.

Oh, and I got one. Might have been asked already, but...
How do you feel about the person you're dating asking you to change something about yourself?

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

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[quote=jinx_you][quote=tazman0208]Here is a question: would girls prefer personality over looks or is it the other way around?

Always personality. Looks last only so long. They can be there one day and gone the next.
I know from personal experience. 😃

So true, so true.
Looks may be the first thing some people pick up on, but after some time no matter how great he looks there just has to be something deeper to make a meaningful relationship. As they say, looks fade with time, but personality more or less remains steady.

That's my two cents on it, anyway.
Feel like I've answered this question already...

So all of you would prefer a boyfriend who was ugly but had a nice personality over a good looking one with a bad personality?
Really?[/quote]
For me, I become more attracted to someone with an awesome personality than I do with someone who doesn't.

Oh, and I got one. Might have been asked already, but...
How do you feel about the person you're dating asking you to change something about yourself?[/quote]
Depends on what she's asking me to change, what the circumstances are, and how much I like the girl. If it's something small, like a little habit I have, sure I'll try and change it as long as she doesn't nag about it. If she wants me to change something bigger, I usually won't comply and if it becomes an issue, I would rather just change gf's. It's easier to do. Course, I only say that cause I haven't been with someone I actually love yet. If I thought she was THE ONE I probably would change. If it was something I thought was fundamental to me being me though, I would really start to question if she was right for me. Hasn't happened yet.

I've never been good at changing myself for other people though. Never was really influenced by peer pressure and I don't give a damn about what most people think and I guess I've never met a girl who was more than just most people to me.

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So all of you would prefer a boyfriend who was ugly but had a nice personality over a good looking one with a bad personality?
Really?

As I said, physical attraction still plays a role, and to think otherwise is probably lying to yourself.

I'm not naive enough to say that just because his personality is great that I want to be with him. There does still have to be at least something of a physical attraction. But as I said before, what holds the relationship together more often is the meshing of personalities -- more often than the physical attraction at least; relationships based solely on that are more likely to break up because there's no emotional reason to stay.

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How do you feel about the person you're dating asking you to change something about yourself?

I had one ask me to change something fundamental to who I was (a manner of thinking that is essentially hard-wired into me at this point). And I tried because I loved him and I wanted it to work out, but in the end, it just wasn't meant to be. He and I are best friends now, and we can live together without any problem, but if try to be romantic, we just don't get along. So, we're back to friends.

You just have to realize that while there may be some things you can change about yourself, there may be some things that you can't, no matter how much you want to or how hard you try. You're always starting off on the wrong foot if you enter a relationship thinking "If I can just change that one thing, then it'll be great." Not only may you not be able to get the other person to change, but they may resent you for trying.

Trying to accept that person for all of who they are is usually the better option. If you don't think you can, you might want to look at ending the relationship.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."