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16 years ago
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Well I am talking about physical attraction. That if you kiss a girl, can you tell right away if you are attracted to her physically or do you need like more touching and stuff 😀 This is so perverted, but I wanna know 😛
Maybe this is just me, but don't you have to feel some sort of attraction to kiss a person in the first place? 😕
I'm not sure what your question is really asking. I've kissed a guy I felt nothing for, it was just a kiss and even after the kiss there was no physical attraction at all, and then there's guys that I liked and kissed, and still felt attracted to them even after the kiss.
As for girls, well I kissed a girl once and felt some sort of attraction towards her, but that's all it was attraction, and that fades with time. You don't really need to kiss or touch someone to know your attracted to them, like Doc said it depends from person to person.
16 years ago
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Well I am talking about physical attraction. That if you kiss a girl, can you tell right away if you are attracted to her physically or do you need like more touching and stuff 😀 This is so perverted, but I wanna know 😛
Maybe this is just me, but don't you have to feel some sort of attraction to kiss a person in the first place? 😕
umm not really you can always kiss someone as a bet, out of pity, etc...
16 years ago
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Well I am talking about physical attraction. That if you kiss a girl, can you tell right away if you are attracted to her physically or do you need like more touching and stuff 😀 This is so perverted, but I wanna know 😛
Ears and eyes can tell enough.
If she looks good and doesn't
sound horrible, then that's pretty
much all there's to the looks.
I doubt anyone has a specific
scale for the softness of thighs
and stuff...
😀 Yeah, thanks man. Anyway the conclusion : I cant understand men...
16 years ago
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Well I am talking about physical attraction. That if you kiss a girl, can you tell right away if you are attracted to her physically or do you need like more touching and stuff 😀 This is so perverted, but I wanna know 😛
Maybe this is just me, but don't you have to feel some sort of attraction to kiss a person in the first place? 😕
umm not really you can always kiss someone as a bet, out of pity, etc...
Oh your right. 😛
But I mean you don't just kiss a stranger for no reason. (excluding: bet, pity, drunkenness, etc.) Maybe it is just me.
16 years ago
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[quote]Well I am talking about physical attraction. That if you kiss a girl, can you tell right away if you are attracted to her physically or do you need like more touching and stuff 😀 This is so perverted, but I wanna know 😛
Maybe this is just me, but don't you have to feel some sort of attraction to kiss a person in the first place? 😕
umm not really you can always kiss someone as a bet, out of pity, etc...
Oh your right. 😛
But I mean you don't just kiss a stranger for no reason. (excluding: bet, pity, drunkenness, etc.) Maybe it is just me.[/quote]
but you also don't kiss a stranger because you are attracted to him/her.
stranger is stranger. you usually kiss people you know and that kiss doesn't have to be out of attraction either. you may just need someone to kiss or you may just want to make someone else jealous or you may just want to have fun.
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So how do they know if they are attracted to a girl?
It's nothing different than from a girl, and it depends from guy to guy. He can either be visually attracted to you or by your personality, maybe even your heritage or income. It varies. There's no defined answer to that. Maybe if you could specify which kind of guy you were talking about?
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Well I am talking about physical attraction. That if you kiss a girl, can you tell right away if you are attracted to her physically or do you need like more touching and stuff 😀 This is so perverted, but I wanna know 😛
Its not that hard. One look and a man is able to determine who he'd sleep with. A man will keep going for it until he finds something that turns him off...
In terms of relationships a man becomes much more picky.
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16 years ago
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Can men tell just by kissing a girl if they are attracted to her or not (like physically)?
Like I had this guy who was totally inlove with me and then after he kissed me said it will not work out.
Huh...
He suddenly realized he was gay?
and WTF how do you end a relationship based on a kiss? you can end it after "other" things, but the first KISS?
Ok how old was he? this can easily explain a few things
EDIT: There is also the chance that he was looking for a "pure" girl with zero experience and the way you kissed him made perfectly clear that you where not what he was looking for (a 5 year old girl)
Also there is the chance that he was kissing you in order to win a bet... we can be like that sometimes >_>
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Can men tell just by kissing a girl if they are attracted to her or not (like physically)?
Like I had this guy who was totally inlove with me and then after he kissed me said it will not work out.
No, they can't.
He just prolly thought you were clumsy
or simply, he was toying with you.
Oh my gawd
3 phrases, infinite wisdom.
Thats Mams for you: +1
I absolutely second that: he thought you were clumsy in kissing and imagined you werent the girl with the "right" attitude/charisma for him. Or the latter, just proving he could kiss you freely, then putting you aside, another notch on the rifle's butt
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That's known as a "coin".
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16 years ago
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I think Chaoswind was right. It could be a bet.
16 years ago
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Uhh you guys kinda want to help so much.
Well he knew I am not easy and I told him like 1000 times, but I got curious and let him kiss me.
I had the upper hand on all of this. So it is kinda irritating he called it off, cause I would have done it myself. Cause I wasn't that into him, but he was into me. That is confusing.
16 years ago
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Uhh you guys kinda want to help so much.
Well he knew I am not easy and I told him like 1000 times, but I got curious and let him kiss me.
I had the upper hand on all of this. So it is kinda irritating he called it off, cause I would have done it myself. Cause I wasn't that into him, but he was into me. That is confusing.
That's why you should never waste your time on someone you're not that interested in. Never understood why people do that. If you can't see it going anywhere then what's the point? Unless it's for the awesome sex life. I could at least understand that, if that were the case.
Question:
What do you think of that whole "opposites attract?" Do you think people that are opposites or those that are more similiar have a more standing relationship, chance... or something. I'm not sure where I'm going with this question....
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16 years ago
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Uhh you guys kinda want to help so much.
Well he knew I am not easy and I told him like 1000 times, but I got curious and let him kiss me.
I had the upper hand on all of this. So it is kinda irritating he called it off, cause I would have done it myself. Cause I wasn't that into him, but he was into me. That is confusing.
That's why you should never waste your time on someone you're not that interested in. Never understood why people do that. If you can't see it going anywhere then what's the point? Unless it's for the awesome sex life. I could at least understand that, if that were the case.
Question:
What do you think of that whole "opposites attract?" Do you think people that are opposites or those that are more similiar have a more standing relationship, chance... or something. I'm not sure where I'm going with this question....
I think it's true to a certain degree like most things. I wouldn't want to be with someone who is completely like myself; after all, there are aspects of myself that I dislike.
Basically, it's nice for the other person to have quirks and some opposite characteristics but there are some basic things that I wouldn't want to have to keep arguing (sense of humor, being understanding, etc).
16 years ago
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Okay, girls. I've been wondering just how many of you are ACTUALLY bi curious IRL. I've met several girls on the internet that are JUST bi online. I think that's ridiculous. Any thoughts?
No one answers my PM's...
16 years ago
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Lol
for some reason I can only come up with lame/sweet answers so lets say it like this
Humans are incomplete beings and we admire the people that can easily do what we can't, however this doesn't apply to everyone...
Ok take me as an example, I seem to have a thing for girls that are into religion, not zealots, but girls that do believe and think there is a nice place in the end of the journey, they usually live for the goal, I on the other hand, can't believe in any religion but my own believes.
I live for the journey, and could careless about the goal.
My cult has 3 general rules
1- Do whatever you want to do, and always bear with the consequences no matter if they are good or bad.
2- To never regret anything because if you had to take the same decision under the same circumstances you would do the same thing again.
3- To never hurt the weak unless is deserved (Note: that if they deserve to be hurt or not is completely up to you)
Then there are 12 more rules, but those are personally imposed and must remain a secret to only you.
The fun part is that girls have actually dumped me, because I don't believe there was a bearded guy 2000 years ago that could multiply food out of thin air and bring dead people back to life, I guess is not that hard to choose between your boyfriend and your god, thankfully most of the time I have already messed up enough to not regret the lost of yet another gf >_>
PS: I keep my believes hidden, don't want them to try to save me >_>
How? If they ask me if I believe in god I answer yes, is not a lie, is just that I don't believe in their god.
16 years ago
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Okay, girls. I've been wondering just how many of you are ACTUALLY bi curious IRL. I've met several girls on the internet that are JUST bi online. I think that's ridiculous. Any thoughts?
I've met bi curious guys online but not offline too. Guess they have the same reason. lol
