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16 years ago
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Okay, girls. I've been wondering just how many of you are ACTUALLY bi curious IRL. I've met several girls on the internet that are JUST bi online. I think that's ridiculous. Any thoughts?
lolwut?
That's....weird.
Don't really get how someone can be bi/gay online but not irl, unless they are hiding it irl or something, but even then they are, but just hiding it...
confused myself 🤣
16 years ago
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Okay, girls. I've been wondering just how many of you are ACTUALLY bi curious IRL. I've met several girls on the internet that are JUST bi online. I think that's ridiculous. Any thoughts?
I've met bi curious guys online but not offline too. Guess they have the same reason. lol
Really? That's along the same lines as what I was talking about, I presume. And yes, Kakashi-sensei. I suspect the same thing as far as unwilling to admit it IRL. 😃
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Member16 years ago
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Nowadays being "bi" is considered cool, so a lot of people brag about it. Ive seen that mostly are self proclamed gays that in reality go also with women. Guess a good amount of women are enticed by this "i'm homo but youre too sexy" thingy.
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That's known as a "coin".
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16 years ago
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Question:
What do you think of that whole "opposites attract?" Do you think people that are opposites or those that are more similar have a more standing relationship, chance... or something. I'm not sure where I'm going with this question....
There must be something wrong with me because whenever I think of opposite attraction I think of S&M, which isn't all that different. 🤣
But to answer your question, yeah I think they do. I wouldn't like to meet someone who has the same personality as me, even I find my self annoying at times. Having similar interest is great but when you act the same I don't know, would you really like to be with someone just like you. I'm considered 'innocent' but I like going for the 'bad' boys, I feel more attracted to them.
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Okay, girls. I've been wondering just how many of you are ACTUALLY bi curious IRL. I've met several girls on the internet that are JUST bi online. I think that's ridiculous. Any thoughts?
lolwut?
That's....weird.
Don't really get how someone can be bi/gay online but not irl, unless they are hiding it irl or something, but even then they are, but just hiding it...
confused myself 🤣
Yeah, do people really do that? How weird must be insecurity issues. I wouldn't exactly label myself as bi, but if I do find a girl attracted and feel something for her then I'm all for it. I've kissed girls before and that's no secret from my friends but that was only because I felt a sort of instant attraction. If I know a relationship can last with a girl then yeah okay, but until I meet someone that will make me feel that way then I wouldn't know what to really say. For now I prefer having a relationship with a guy though.
16 years ago
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Grandexeno: You're sig made me chuckle. <3
LunaMay: I think that keeping an open mind like that is called "pan-sexual". 😀
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16 years ago
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LunaMay: I think that keeping an open mind like that is called "pan-sexual". 😀
😲 So there's a word for it!
You learn something new everyday!
Pan-sexual...so weird why not just opensexual... 😛
16 years ago
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LunaMay: I think that keeping an open mind like that is called "pan-sexual". 😀
😲 So there's a word for it!
You learn something new everyday!
Pan-sexual...so weird why not just opensexual... 😛
You know, that's a very good question. Ponders I think pan-sexual just sound like someone likes to have sex with cooking apparatus. 😎
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16 years ago
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LunaMay: I think that keeping an open mind like that is called "pan-sexual". 😀
😲 So there's a word for it!You learn something new everyday!
Pan-sexual...so weird why not just opensexual... 😛You know, that's a very good question. Ponders I think pan-sexual just sound like someone likes to have sex with cooking apparatus. 😎
Oh how offending! There's actually people like that... 😐
To make this legal...
Would you let your girlfriend/boyfriend meet you family? If so how long into the relationship till that happens?
I wouldn't. Why? Because they may spill everything I do to them, and my dirty little secrets...not a good thing. Itd epends, though.
16 years ago
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[quote=Daddydreadpyrat]LunaMay: I think that keeping an open mind like that is called "pan-sexual". 😀
😲 So there's a word for it!You learn something new everyday!
Pan-sexual...so weird why not just opensexual... 😛You know, that's a very good question. Ponders I think pan-sexual just sound like someone likes to have sex with cooking apparatus. 😎
Oh how offending! There's actually people like that... 😐
To make this legal...
Would you let your girlfriend/boyfriend meet you family? If so how long into the relationship till that happens?
I wouldn't. Why? Because they may spill everything I do to them, and my dirty little secrets...not a good thing. Itd epends, though.[/quote]LunaMay, there are people like that and much, much more. *Chuckles.
In response to your question, I have nothing to hide from a significant other, so I have no qualms with letting them meet any of my family. I've been in relationships before where not being completely open with someone has led the the rapid deterioration of the relationship. So I now have a strict "no BS" policy. ^_^
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Well, if my girlfriend "spilled" some H secrets to my family, she would be very rude-gross, therefore i wouldnt have dated her from the beginning. From my male point of view, i wouldnt want a girlfriend to meet my family anyway: my private life still remains within MY boundaries.
p.s. Yeah, I know, my sig is made of Win 😀
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I need a die with 2 sides.
That's known as a "coin".
Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.
16 years ago
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Depends on the family. I knew mine wouldn't go overboard or scare him off, so I had no problem introducing him right away (as soon as I knew that we would be together for a while, that is). I also knew I had nothing to hide.
I met his family within a month of meeting him, but that was because he was living with them and it was still a long distance relationship at that point, so if I wanted to see him, I had to see them.
Fortunately, I love my in-laws, and he likes mine, so it worked out wonderfully well in my case. I know not everyone can say the same, though.
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
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16 years ago
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I'd let them meet. It took me like 6 months to introduce, but thats partly because I live 300 miles away from everyone. Its not a problem, since my mom likes the dork more than she likes me.
16 years ago
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[quote=Daddydreadpyrat]LunaMay: I think that keeping an open mind like that is called "pan-sexual". 😀
😲 So there's a word for it!You learn something new everyday!
Pan-sexual...so weird why not just opensexual... 😛You know, that's a very good question. Ponders I think pan-sexual just sound like someone likes to have sex with cooking apparatus. 😎
Oh how offending! There's actually people like that... 😐
To make this legal...
Would you let your girlfriend/boyfriend meet you family? If so how long into the relationship till that happens?
I wouldn't. Why? Because they may spill everything I do to them, and my dirty little secrets...not a good thing. Itd epends, though.[/quote]
HELL NO (Depends, but that would be my first answer if my GF where to ask me to meet my family)
If things turn awkward and she starts to say stuff like "You don't think I am good enough for your family?" then I may reconsider, but the chances say I won't... at least not willingly
I am not an open person, actually I can count with a single hand how many people truly know me, and no one in my family is one of those fingers.
16 years ago
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Quote from Daddydreadpyrat
Okay, girls. I've been wondering just how many of you are ACTUALLY bi curious IRL. I've met several girls on the internet that are JUST bi online. I think that's ridiculous. Any thoughts?
Sadly, there aren't as many as there actually seems to be (in real life). A lot of women play the bi card as a way to heighten their sexual appeal to men - since for the majority, men find it exciting, sexy, ect when two women are together. Which seriously pisses me off. >:-( One, that makes you a total tease and two slightly pathetic since you don't think you can get a person on your own. Yes, there are a lot of people that like to have their cake and eat it too but none will complain just having the cake.
Would you let your girlfriend/boyfriend meet you family? If so how long into the relationship till that happens?
I don't just take anyone home to meet the family. Though, they meet some of them right away - my roomates. Which, if you can't pass with my roommates, you'll never make it pass my uncles, cousins, and grandda.
If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.
16 years ago
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So the guys who pretend to be bi curious online also play the bi card as a way to heighten their sexual appeal to women (or men)? 🤣
