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So the guys who pretend to be bi curious online also play the bi card as a way to heighten their sexual appeal to women (or men)? 🤣

Yes.

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So all of you would prefer a boyfriend who was ugly but had a nice personality over a good looking one with a bad personality?
Really?

As I said, physical attraction still plays a role, and to think otherwise is probably lying to yourself.

I'm not naive enough to say that just because his personality is great that I want to be with him. There does still have to be at least something of a physical attraction. But as I said before, what holds the relationship together more often is the meshing of personalities -- more often than the physical attraction at least; relationships based solely on that are more likely to break up because there's no emotional reason to stay.

Yeah, we're on the same page. I was just trying to get through to some of the people who only said that they prefer personality over looks. It has to be the whole package though, as a relationship will not start without the spark. Of course what hold the relationship and fuels the fire is the meshing of personalities.

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Oh so much fun. Though I prefer being the giver than receiver. No idea why. But there's nothing like being in complete control and driving your partner crazy.
So enjoyable. Pure bliss.

Quoted for emphasis. 😉

Quoted yet again. I don't mind it at all, although the first couple of times I didn't know what I was doing and thinking back my partner probably faked the orgasm. Why are girls so tricky?
Anyway, when you do it right you will know it.

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I've never understood. Why fake an orgasm? Pity? To get it over with?

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

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Oh so much fun. Though I prefer being the giver than receiver. No idea why. But there's nothing like being in complete control and driving your partner crazy.
So enjoyable. Pure bliss.

Quoted for emphasis. 😉

Quoted yet again. I don't mind it at all, although the first couple of times I didn't know what I was doing and thinking back my partner probably faked the orgasm. Why are girls so tricky?
Anyway, when you do it right you will know it.

My first times just came to mind. 🤣
That's one of the reasons why I do like guys. They can't help but be honest. Well, maybe not them being particularly honest, but definitely their bodies. 🤣

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I've never understood. Why fake an orgasm? Pity? To get it over with?

I never really understood that myself. Personally, I'm equally selfish and giving when it comes to pleasure. So if you don't seem to be doing something right, if I don't tell you I'm sure as hell going to show you.

Which brings me to this question...
How important is it? Would you break up with someone if things weren't that great in the sheets.... or look to get it somewhere else... or do your best to spice it up?

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

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Which brings me to this question...
How important is it? Would you break up with someone if things weren't that great in the sheets.... or look to get it somewhere else... or do your best to spice it up?

Good Question, i think I'd be fine with it, because over time people become used to their partners bodies(In alot of cases atleast) and since i doubt I'd be doing much of anything with someone i didn't care for, i can wait.

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question...
How important is it? Would you break up with someone if things weren't that great in the sheets.... or look to get it somewhere else... or do your best to spice it up?

I think if you like the person enough you will eventually learn. They may not be the best sex you've had, but still they can suffice. Hop ethat didn't sound bad. 😛

Also, there's that whole love thing. A lotta people say that when you're in love with someone, it could be the worst sex in the world and you still thoroughly enjoy it because of your extreme feelings for your significant other. 😃

No one answers my PM's...

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Also, there's that whole love thing. A lotta people say that when you're in love with someone, it could be the worst sex in the world and you still thoroughly enjoy it because of your extreme feelings for your significant other. 😃

See... I don't know about this. I don't find sex that emotionally involved at all really. But, I also haven't been in love so this may be true. And it kind of irks me when people want to bust out the "I love you" afterwards (only in the cases when they've never said it before or even spoke of it before)...

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

I will say that for some people, the emotional connection makes all of the difference in the world, to the point that they don't even want to have sex if there's no emotional attachment. It does depend on the individual, but it certainly does exist in some cases.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

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I've never understood. Why fake an orgasm? Pity? To get it over with?

I have no idea... but I do know that if it is to make their partner feel better, then it doesn't work. Probably has the opposite effect, since it gets you thinking that she wants it over with.

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I've never understood. Why fake an orgasm? Pity? To get it over with?

I have no idea... but I do know that if it is to make their partner not feel better, then it doesn't work. Probably has the opposite effect, since it gets you thinking that she wants it over with.

Smirks Heh, most guys never even know that a girl is faking. It can be hard to tell if you've never seen that particular girl having an orgasm.

No one answers my PM's...

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I've never understood. Why fake an orgasm? Pity? To get it over with?

I have no idea... but I do know that if it is to make their partner not feel better, then it doesn't work. Probably has the opposite effect, since it gets you thinking that she wants it over with.

Smirks Heh, most guys never even know that a girl is faking. It can be hard to tell if you've never seen that particular girl having an orgasm.

Probably just to get it over with.
Yes, women are really amazing!

question inspired by jinx's post ^_^

Question- When/Where should you not say I love you?
So many people just throw that phrase around. I've heard it countless times from both males and females, and I actually wonder if people think about these kinds of things before they even say it.

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Question- When/Where should you not say I love you?
So many people just throw that phrase around. I've heard it countless times from both males and females, and I actually wonder if people think about these kinds of things before they even say it.

just don't say it to a guy/girl you just met yesterday...

i don't believe in love at first sight and i see it as an insult to my character..

i am actually very careful about saying i love you. actually i don't even say me too", when someone i don't really love says "i love you" to me. for me, i love you is only preserved for my really really loved ones. and most of the my bfs are not even in that list.

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Question- When/Where should you not say I love you?
So many people just throw that phrase around. I've heard it countless times from both males and females, and I actually wonder if people think about these kinds of things before they even say it.

just don't say it to a guy/girl you just met yesterday...

i don't believe in love at first sight and i see it as an insult to my character..

i am actually very careful about saying i love you. actually i don't even say me too", when someone i don't really love says "i love you" to me. for me, i love you is only preserved for my really really loved ones. and most of the my bfs are not even in that list.

I have never said it.
To family, yes. To anyone else, no. Because people say it way too much. Say it when they don't mean it. And say just to say it. To me, if you've said it once, you've said it one too many times. Actions speak louder than words. I would rather be shown that you love me rather than be told. Words can be hollow/shallow, actions are not.

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

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Question- When/Where should you not say I love you?
So many people just throw that phrase around. I've heard it countless times from both males and females, and I actually wonder if people think about these kinds of things before they even say it.

just don't say it to a guy/girl you just met yesterday...

i don't believe in love at first sight and i see it as an insult to my character..

i am actually very careful about saying i love you. actually i don't even say me too", when someone i don't really love says "i love you" to me. for me, i love you is only preserved for my really really loved ones. and most of the my bfs are not even in that list.

I have never said it.
To family, yes. To anyone else, no. Because people say it way too much. Say it when they don't mean it. And say just to say it. To me, if you've said it once, you've said it one too many times. Actions speak louder than words. I would rather be shown that you love me rather than be told. Words can be hollow/shallow, actions are not.

Body language, and that kind of communication can really hit hard, or in this case be shallow.