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..i just wana ask for advie..uhm..you see in any relationship i had taken, i always seem to lost love easily..i get bored for 1 girl and look for another..it all started when my first girl broked up with me..i know this sounds crazy..but at least you could throw some advices

If you look at love as chemistry, this quote from wikipedia might help:

The chemicals triggered responsible for passionate love and long-term attachment love seem to be more particular to the activities in which both participate rather than to the nature of the specific people involved. So, basically, you need an otaku-girl.

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ok i dunno if this is the right place but it kinda fits. ladies if the guy your dating has somewhat different religious views from you AND your family would that end up being a big problem for you?

Depends on how strongly religious he is.
As much as I hate religion, I'm willing to compromise if I love the person.
Some people don't push this matter on their on the other. Some do, and try to impose their views on the partner.
I wouldn't want to be have this type of person near me, let alone be partner.

I don't really care about family views though. It's my partner.

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ok i dunno if this is the right place but it kinda fits. ladies if the guy your dating has somewhat different religious views from you AND your family would that end up being a big problem for you?

Depends on how strongly religious he is.
As much as I hate religion, I'm willing to compromise if I love the person.
Some people don't push this matter on their on the other. Some do, and try to impose their views on the partner.
I wouldn't want to be have this type of person near me, let alone be partner.

I don't really care about family views though. It's my partner.

Like a friend of mine that every time he boards his car he makes a prayer... and I am not talking about the short Jesus we love you stuff, I am talking about a CHURCH level payer (more than 15 minutes of nonsense). I make fun of him saying every time he prays, he is asking god to refuel his car.

Oh, Yeah I think Religion is crap, but I do believe in an existence greater than us, fair enough right?

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ok i dunno if this is the right place but it kinda fits. ladies if the guy your dating has somewhat different religious views from you AND your family would that end up being a big problem for you?

It alllll depends on how different the religions are & how strong they are. If his religion is directly contradictory to what I believe in areas that I think are important then it would be an issue. For me it wouldn't really be about religion as such, but more about conflicting world views and/or priorities. If his religion didn't especially contradict things I believe in, then it wouldn't be a big deal.

I agree that it wouldn't really matter if his religious views conflicted with my family's views, it would be his & my business (but as my family & I are quite similarly non-religious, for practical purposes it would work out about the same).

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a "fat" guy or a guy that looks like a twig, which do you ladies prefer?

there is no other option here.

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..i just wana ask for advie..uhm..you see in any relationship i had taken, i always seem to lost love easily..i get bored for 1 girl and look for another..it all started when my first girl broked up with me..i know this sounds crazy..but at least you could throw some advices

Find more interesting women. Or, just keep doing what you do, and eventually one of the girls will be to your liking and you won't get bored of her.

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..i just wana ask for advie..uhm..you see in any relationship i had taken, i always seem to lost love easily..i get bored for 1 girl and look for another..it all started when my first girl broked up with me..i know this sounds crazy..but at least you could throw some advices

Find more interesting women. Or, just keep doing what you do, and eventually one of the girls will be to your liking and you won't get bored of her.

Simply as that: some results will come out when YOU change your point of view/attitude. Needs some time though, I guess. Take your time, stroll leasurely from relationship to relationship and one day, matured, you'll find your only one 🙂

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That's known as a "coin".

Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.

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by just going straight out and asking
some girls find it funny or might not say yes when you make someone else ask
you would have a better chance asking them in person
at least that's what works that most

agree but put some subtly humor .. or somehow a good atmosphere then things just flow 😎

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I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" 🤣

So yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?

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I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" 🤣

So yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?

I'd do the same as him.
No point asking if you've actually
made up your mind.

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I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" 🤣

So yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?

I only get asked that by my really old/close friends. Oh and my sister, but I generally just tell them it looks nice either way, but they always notice I'm just trying to get outta responding to them. After that I just tell them which I think fits them more.

I respond truthfully

However, My answer sometimes doesn't have anything to do with the dress 😛

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I respond truthfully

However, My answer sometimes doesn't have anything to do with the dress 😛

🤣 I see...Well that's a good way to avoid the question. 🤨

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I'd do the same as him.
No point asking if you've actually
made up your mind.

Hey! That's only true for a couple of times...
Other times I want to be nice and hear a guys' honest opinion.
Besides guys often ask the same thing. 😃

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I'd do the same as him.
No point asking if you've actually
made up your mind.

Hey! That's only true for a couple of times...
Other times I want to be nice and hear a guys' honest opinion.
Besides guys often ask the same thing. 😃

They do?
I'll just pick whatever is laying around
the floor.

Instead of saying "Really?" which questions his judgment, it might have been better to ask "You think so? I'm curious why?" and find out what he was thinking. There may have been good reason and future useful information that went into the decision.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

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