Ask the opposite gender
16 years ago
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I'd do the same as him.
No point asking if you've actually
made up your mind.Hey! That's only true for a couple of times...
Other times I want to be nice and hear a guys' honest opinion.
Besides guys often ask the same thing. 😃They do?
I'll just pick whatever is laying around
the floor.
Yeah but it's more along the lines of "Are these jeans too tight?"
I, of course say no, since I prefer them tight on a guy anyways.
Most guys do wear whatever is lying around though, shame... 🙄
16 years ago
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Depends on the occasion, we only ask when we are a little insecure about how we are dressed for special occasions like a Funeral or a weeding, and mainly when we have to meet someone we don't know (The family of our GF)
PS: AVOID THAT
hmmm on another note... that is true I do ask if my pants are too tight...
16 years ago
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Instead of saying "Really?" which questions his judgment, it might have been better to ask "You think so? I'm curious why?" and find out what he was thinking. There may have been good reason and future useful information that went into the decision.
Spoken like a true senpai. 😀
After a few minutes I thought of that, but I'm not sure since he answered rather quickly. 🤣
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hmmm on another note... that is true I do ask if my pants are too tight...
I don't get it, is there something wrong with wearing tight pants? I, along with most of my friends prefer them tight.
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hmmm on another note... that is true I do ask if my pants are too tight...
I don't get it, is there something wrong with wearing tight pants? I, along with most of my friends prefer them tight.
No, I wear tight pants so people can see
my ass isn't saggy. Tight pants tend to have
a tight front as well, which isn't as nice...
16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
After a few minutes I thought of that, but I'm not sure since he answered rather quickly. 🤣
It could have been as simple as color preference, or that he likes the way you look in X. You won't know if you don't ask.
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16 years ago
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hmmm on another note... that is true I do ask if my pants are too tight...
I don't get it, is there something wrong with wearing tight pants? I, along with most of my friends prefer them tight.
No, I wear tight pants so people can see
my ass isn't saggy. Tight pants tend to have
a tight front as well, which isn't as nice...
That's one of the main reasons why I like them on a guy, might as well show off what you got, no sagginess though.
It's always nice to look at a guy's ass when you're bored. 😳
Tight fronts? Thus another reason I'm glad I was born a girl. 🙂
16 years ago
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Mams pretty much said it... if it where for us, guys would wear "loincloths" or stark naked... at least when we are resting in a bet or better yet a hamaca ([url]http://www.mygomera.de/fotos/01-12-28_casa/hamaca.jpg[/url]) is the freedom!!!
16 years ago
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a "fat" guy or a guy that looks like a twig, which do you ladies prefer?
there is no other option here.
None. I'd rather hit on another girl 😛 (joke joke >.<!)
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I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" 🤣So yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?
I tend to ask that too..maybe because we all want to reassure 1000 times that what we're wearing is liked by the other person. But it's also true that not only girls ask that, I have many male friends that bug me a lot with my opinion on clothing.
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Instead of saying "Really?" which questions his judgment, it might have been better to ask "You think so? I'm curious why?" and find out what he was thinking. There may have been good reason and future useful information that went into the decision.
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hmmm on another note... that is true I do ask if my pants are too tight...
I don't get it, is there something wrong with wearing tight pants? I, along with most of my friends prefer them tight.
No, I wear tight pants so people can see
my ass isn't saggy. Tight pants tend to have
a tight front as well, which isn't as nice...
I can't get down wit em. I need some swing room.
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I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" laughSo yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?
I get upset and say the same thing I JUST told in an authoritative voice.
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16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" laughSo yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?
the only time I've ever had a girl ask me about clothes was this time I was drug into a Spencer's gift store. They happened to have a couple sets of lingerie, mostly garter+bustier combos, and she insisted she had to have one. Guess what she asked my opinion on?
To make things worse she practically kicked my ass until I went into Victoria's Secret with her and helped her pick out several sets of underwear. You won't believe the looks I got from storekeepers when she wandered off out of my sight when I wan't paying attention.
This is made doubly strange because she wasn't even my girlfriend. I hadn't even known her a full hour. Can't say I didn't have fun though. She was good company.
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16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" 🤣So yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?
my girlfriend hasnt asked me this type of question yet...thank God. If she ever did I'd probably have a hard time answering, im pretty much the most indecisive person on the planet when it comes to everything except whether or not i like a person. ne thing else i become the guy going "uh...i dunno which ever you like" or "you look beautiful in anything" ...it never works lol. so i usually end up picking at random since i seriously do think she looks great in ne thing and its not like i would say "omg you look terrible in that go put something else on," unless it was something seriously outrageous lol
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16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
I have to ask since I just notice I do this a lot--
So I'm debating on what of two outfits to wear so I ask my boyfriend which one looks better, he picks one and I look at him, "Really?..." and he just slams the door and leaves mumbling to himself, "Why f**king ask then?" 🤣So yeah my question here is: Guys if the same question has been asked to you what do you respond? And girls, why ask them?
I never asked anyone what to wear. I always decide for myself. I can't answer your question but no offence, I think he was rude to swear. Was he in a bad mood that day?
Now I remember how nice my ex-bf was. I was the one who picked fights on small things and used bad words (though I didn't do those often). He never became mad, lost reason and fought with me. I guess I was like a tsundere (is it the word for it?)? 😮
16 years ago
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I'd do the same as him.
No point asking if you've actually
made up your mind.Hey! That's only true for a couple of times...
Other times I want to be nice and hear a guys' honest opinion.
Besides guys often ask the same thing. 😃They do?
I'll just pick whatever is laying around
the floor.
This, for both of his answers.
16 years ago
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Question for the ladies. Would you turn to a magazine or some other media to learn something about a relationship or just flat out ask a guy? Why?
16 years ago
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Quote from Liria
If she's not already inclined toward liking you, trying to break them up will only make her angry at you and quite possibly ruin your friendship entirely. Since you've already made her aware of how you feel, to attempt to break them up would just make you look childish.
If you want a chance, you've got to get past her image of you as 'like a brother' and show her that you're more than that - but not by trying to break her and another guy up. You have to continue to be a good friend. That doesn't mean you have to like he going out with him, nor that you have to be around them if they're doing things you don't want to watch/know about. But whatever your good qualities are, put yourself in a position to demonstrate to her why you're the one she should be with. Compete on your own strengths, not by sabotage.
The main thing to remember is it's up to HER to decide, not up to you. To attempt to decide for her means you really don't care about her, just yourself.
(The stuff that most girls like to read about in shoujo mangas - yeah, most of that doesn't actually work in real life.)
Thx, thats what most of my male friends have told me. I just wanted the opposite genders opinion. Great quotes in your sig btw
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